Okay, so a guy that I’ve liked for a long time finally asked me on a date a few weeks ago. Every Thursday since then, we’ve gone a date. Things always go exceedingly well, and we always have the best conversation during the dates, and then end up kissing at the end. I can tell that he likes me a lot, or so I thought. But last Thursday, we made plans for Monday. Then, on Monday, he told me that it wasn’t going to work out, but said that he’d call me in a day or two. Well, now it’s Thursday night again, and I haven’t heard anything. I know that he’s a busy guy, and he’s always been reliable in the past. I am just getting freaked out, but don’t want to seem too needy by calling him first, when he said he’d call me. Do you think he’s just busy or what?
2007-10-25 11:55:24 · 10 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And should I call him or just wait and see what happens?
2007-10-25 11:59:43 · update #1
FIRST of all....he has your number...if you feel like calling go for a walk, ANYTHING to pass the urge. If he's truly interested he'll call you...don't put pressure or a guilt trip on him because he'll be seeing you for all the wrong reasons. If he doesn't want to see you, of his own free will, you WILL get over him and meet a fantastic new guy...in time. You have to learn to pace yourself so you won't get 'freaked' out if someone doesn't call you. He might just need some space; not ready to be with just one girl...but DON'T call him..& if he calls be very friendly, light hearted...not accusing or questioning. NO man EVER likes whining, needy, accusing women.
2007-10-25 12:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by LaVerne W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-30 05:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that he has met someone else and doesn't know how to tell you without hurting your feelings.
Or, he may not be ready for a committed relationship just yet.
Either way, you should wait awhile before you call him, for the very reasons you mentioned. Then, see if you can meet with him somewhere safe so you can talk it out with him.
2007-10-25 12:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Gee Wye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have just ended it this way. Sometimes people say they will call and they still don't. It sounds like he may be trying to end things with you.
If he doesn't call try to keep your spirits up. Maybe someday he will call or maybe he is just busy.
2007-10-25 12:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait...for him. He needs some space for himself. Probably stress from work, school or could be family and personal problems. He will call you when he is ready. Bring him some lunch.
2007-10-25 12:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is NOT nervous. He's not that into you... Get some self respect and move on immediately before your self esteem and future emotional health become at risk.
2007-10-25 12:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by tgrx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably nervous because he likes you. just call him. hes too shy to call you. call him, and he'll be more relieved.
good luck!
2007-10-25 12:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the above answer
2007-10-25 11:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by mephisto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes nervous
2007-10-25 11:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by fielder27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he,s had enough of you.
2007-10-25 11:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Bwk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋