I know all men are different, but i have a question. Do YOU personally like a woman who tells you what to do and is basically in charge of everything in a way... OR do you prefer a woman who is more needy and you like doing things for her. such as picking the restaurant, and YOU being in charge. What is your view on that? and yeah i want YOUR thoughts! thanks
2007-10-25 11:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not to fond of the ones that boss you around but they are ok too
2007-10-25 11:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course this depends on preference, which differs from man to man but personally, I like doing things for my woman. I don't care though if she wants to choose the place to eat or be in charge of certain things, I am not a picky person. It can go either way for me. I don't always need to be in charge of everything, the responsibilities can be spread out.
2007-10-25 18:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a guy speaking. It really depends on how independent a woman is but it is fine to ask for help sometimes; it's natural. So the direct answer would be both. Also, if you have a relationship with someone (engagement and on) you and your spouse should take a decision on something together to clear up any misunderstandings or just to ask something to one another.
2007-10-25 18:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Smartest person alive! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely rather be in charge. I would listen to her opinion if she chose to give it, but if she didnt I would gladly take charge. As for being needy, I think we are all somewhat needy, thats why we are in a relationship to begin with. If a woman is a little needy its ok, in fact its good for the relationship, but if shes purely dependent, then thats bad for the relationship, for both people.
2007-10-25 18:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by hockeyfreak 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like the area in the middle of the two extremes you gave. i prefer a partner rather than a controller or wet noodle. my honey and i constantly consult with the other and usually come to an agreement but there are times i don't feel like making the decisions and let her and she does the same. equal
2007-10-25 19:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will do almost anything as long as they get laid.
Good relationships work when both agree to the terms of it, no matter who is the most dominant or passive!
2007-10-25 19:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Steve M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda want both, but if i was newly dating with some1 then i would like the girl to pick cuz thats just how its suppose to be, but after a while id prolly get tired and want to make some choices myself but i wouldnt want to make all the choices
2007-10-25 18:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it when we can both make decisions. I do like it when a women tells me what she likes but I also like it when the women has her own opinion.
i have a question for you.
Do you like it when the guy makes the firs move or do you like making the first move???
2007-10-25 19:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by George B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone in the middle of those two extremes would be nice.
2007-10-25 19:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Felix The Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the second one but if possible she has to be able to take charge when she has to
2007-10-25 19:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Brooxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋