so i am going to a huanted house on saturday so i need these answers asap. At this huanted house i am meeting the guy i like who i have not seen foe like 2 months. I was soo excited. Untill my mom found out that I was going alone to the haunted house with a couple firends she freaked becasue alot of bad stuff happened there last year. So she is making my dad go and my firends dad go too. Now it is going to be soo akward and i really dnt want to go. I cant tell my dad to his face that i dont want him to go b/c that will hurt his feelings . How do i get out him not to come?
2007-10-25 11:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by ari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him, "Hey Dad, I really insist you stay home and watch the exciting World Series! Order pizza! Have some beer! Have fun! I'll be back by midnight!" =<)
2007-10-25 11:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21, I'm not old fashioned by any means, but I agree with your parents. They are doing the responsible thing. That place in their mind, is not safe for you to be at alone. They are being reasonable- they could say youre flat out not going! I would try to arrange a different place to meet this guy. A place they are willing to let you go without supervision- then they are both happy. Do it a different time though, or they are going to think you're going to sneak off and go to the haunted house without them.
2007-10-25 18:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand the position of parents, in todays world you have people disappearing left and right there is no security. It's only a protection thing not exactly a trust issue. If you are mature in your decisions and you can prove that to them I believe that they will have a change of heart, but if you have been making irresponsible decisions and leading a life of manipulation in their eyes they do have every right to be concerned. Just sit down and explain that you can handle this situation and make a pact that you will respect the rules and conditions if they'll let you go.
2007-10-25 18:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Explorer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Just tell him there is a boy there that you like and you have been looking forward to meeting him. And ask your dad to be nice to him. If you ask your dad not to go make sure you tell him why or esle you will hurt his feelings.
2007-10-25 18:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by LoLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friends dad is also going to be there, just let him come. plus, please understand that you will regret those moments of not being with your dad. I always wanted a dad that would enjoy being around me, but no my dad likes to ignore me. So why is bad to have your dad around? It sounds like you two have a good relationship because they care about your safety, and your worried about hurting his feelings. Don't ruin that. Trust me its not uncool to be with your dad. Wow, that reminds me of a this concert that i went to with my friends, we all have pretty shi t t y relationships with our fathers, and this one kid we knew, who everyone classified as a 'dork' , was with there with his dad. And even though we never admitted it, we were so jealous. I could see my friends looking at them with this sorrowful expression. Its not uncool. And if your friends think so. They are stupid.
2007-10-25 18:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's off, say your not going anymore lie your going to your mates house instead & stay there. & make sure u actually stay there in the end coz they'll find out. trust - they always have a way :@ grr
gd luck, hope this helps xx
2007-10-25 18:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Your mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mature about it and realize you parents love you...just ask your dad to lag back a bit..You should appreciate you parents while you have them ask my daughter her dad just died..
2007-10-25 18:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy cat lady >^ ^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him. I'm sure he will understand he was a teenager with parents once.
2007-10-25 18:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Beverly C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Football is on =]
2007-10-25 18:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but you have to tell him.
2007-10-25 18:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joey Crawford is love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋