Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

He is going to be a father - he is 32 years old but has not grown up!!! I love his girlfriend but I think she is doing this to spite him.. I want to be a good aunt - but I hate budding in.... I want to make sure this child is taken care of... I know he would be a good dad - and she is a queen... How can I get them together???

2007-10-25 13:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by michelleinhamilton 1 in Family

Mine is that

I like to dance nude in front of my mirror, and lip sing to
favorite songs....

2007-10-25 13:36:13 · 9 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or would you wait and let them find out on their own eventually.

There are kids and common so there is pick ups / drop offs/ phone calls etc... only about the kids - nothing personal.

2007-10-25 13:34:05 · 25 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I talked to my ex-fiance today---She actually stayed on the phone...I told her I wanted her back and that I loved her and miss her. She told me that wasn't a good enough reason to get back together. I explained to her that I had an stupidity lapse and I hope she could forgive me; she was silent. Then she said "well, I wish you well in all your endeavors"...

WTF is that!!! I'm not just a regular joe, I was your ******* fiance for pete's sake! I'm sorry but that comment threw me off...I'm pouring my heart out.....(anyways, I deserve it...but DAMN!!!)

What should I do? I'm planning on going up there this weekend to pretty much beg on my knees for her forgiveness but I'm getting frustrated.

2007-10-25 13:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is really kind of complicated but to shorten it up, I've known this girl for nearly 6 years and I really like her and I want her to know even if It doesn't work out in the end, i just want her to know so that i can get some sleep at night and not have my mind endlessly thinking about what if....ya know?

2007-10-25 13:31:54 · 35 answers · asked by william 1 in Singles & Dating

I know he would not like. He was a very private person. Should I confront them or leave it alone?

2007-10-25 13:31:44 · 7 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Friends

1)We play fight and joke around all the time
2)He gave me the first cd he had ever made
3)Texts me
4)Tells me to call him if I want to hang out
5)He knows if something is wrong
6)Apologizes to me when he did something stupid and he knows im mad
7)Tells me stuff that most guys wouldn’t talk about
8)He told me that “even though I don’t show it all that often, I just want you to know that I think your awesome”
9)Came over my house to hang out and we just watched a movie
10)Slept over my house during a party…other people were there as well but him and I slept down stairs
11)Given me a massage
12)Tells me that I’m entertaining
13)Makes bets with me
14)Once laughed and responded with “ What are you kidding” when I said “you probably hate me
15)Remembers small things about me
16)Borrowed a pair of my sweatpants when he slept over and never gave them back
17) Gives me advice and tries to make me feel better
Are we just close friends or does he want more?

2007-10-25 13:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband says no affair or not gay but is not intrested in me sexually?

2007-10-25 13:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to give a friend of mine who's getting married lingerie for her bridal shower, but that's not technically on the list of the registered items. Would it be rude to completely ignore the list and give her just lingerie and the like, or should I get lingerie and something from the list?

2007-10-25 13:26:25 · 20 answers · asked by Skylar 3 in Weddings

2007-10-25 13:22:40 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs E 3 in Weddings

2007-10-25 13:22:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if the guy is so shy, he won't look at you at all? i mean, so I do it back and not look, plus I'm extremely shy as well, but I mean he gives me not EVEN a glance, when I walk in the room at college (even when I'm making ALL kinds of noise and such!) He looks about my age, 28-30. He's in 2 classes with me, but for four days. He had no choice to smile back at me and say hi VERY quietly once after I smiled and said hi, but.... because he ACCIDENTLY looked at me? I seen him look at me maybe two more times, that's it, but not long enough for me to respond. what is wrong with him? Does he not like me at all? Or is he too shy? Give me some examples of how you may of acted before. Serious answers Please! Thank you so much.

2007-10-25 13:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm scared he might meet someone and divorce me.

2007-10-25 13:19:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and what are some good tricks?

2007-10-25 13:17:51 · 4 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Singles & Dating

I recently moved out of state because my job relocated. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are now 4 hours apart. We see each other on the weekends but it is getting more difficult everyday. I love him and want to be with him but we don't have a plan. I am 24 and he is 27. Should I leave my job and move back to be closer to him or should I wait until we are engaged?

2007-10-25 13:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by Girly Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

He just comes home from work and basically ignores me.He wont go out or do anything like go to a bar or theme park or whatever.He does not like going to church with me and sometimes I go alone.It is so embarassing.He has been recovering from meth and lied to me on lots of times.Told me his best friend is on meth and that he refuses stoping their friendship.He calls him during the day but not me.The sad thing is the best friends wife is super sweet major christian and speaks 5 languages and teaches to deaf children.Somewhere in this I am the bad person?The best friend bad mouths me and my husband does not defend me.My husband has hit me twice and I never had the heart to turn him in.So he says he will divorce me before he would quit being friends with this so called best friend.Do you think maybe he is gay?

2007-10-25 13:16:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy that never talks, seems to distant himself from the class and goes to class to do his work. Doesn't really socialize with anyone, he gets his work done then gets out. He also seems to be hiding, or avoiding interaction with anyone. But when someone talks to him, he would talk and act friendly, but doesn't pursue the conversation. He'll go back to being quiet. He's also okay looking or quite handsome. He doesn't look insecured, but very quiet and confident. What do you think of these guys?

2007-10-25 13:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol...Wow...I sounded bossy didn't I? and juevenile...But...Please ignore that...Well number one, it's not that bad really (the way I want to wear it.) I just like my eyeliner dark and full but she makes me wear it where it isn't even visible...I am just looking for individualitly and thats how I like to express myself...(I guess)...Number two, She won't even let me ask her...She just screams about it...Number three, she is being hypocritical because hers is very dark but of course she "is an adult living under her own roof..." heh heh...Its just these little things that set me off...Sorry, had to get that off my mind...

Well, I guess the question really is, how should I compromise with her...Without her very short temper blowing up.

Yes I'm an idiot.

2007-10-25 13:15:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was dating this 29 year old woman for 9 months. I am 36. About 4 months ago she told me she loved me and 2 months ago she said we were boyfriend and girlfriend. Last month things were great and we were spending more time together and she called every day. We live an hour apart so finding time together was hard. Then 3 weeks ago I sent a text on Saturday night saying I miss you and wish I could see you right now. About an hour later I called. A guy answered the phone and then gave it to her and she didn't have much to say. Anyway the next day she called and told me that she had been in a relationship with someone else since before we met. She said she had been trying to find a way to tell me and that I meant more. She said she needed time to get her life straight and we would be together. So I have been waiting for 3 weeks talking to her a few times a week. Then out of the blue she sends me a text message saying this is all my fault and now I am ending it. I still love he

2007-10-25 13:15:24 · 3 answers · asked by dhack567 2 in Singles & Dating

I just started high school about 2 months ago
and i noticed that whenever you say bye (even on the phone) they never say anything. what is up with that?

2007-10-25 13:14:58 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 13:12:23 · 19 answers · asked by missandra70 1 in Singles & Dating

We got married when we were teenagers and rushed into starting a family. The first year was rough he had an affair but we moved past it. Over the next few years it was an on and off thing..Id leave him for a week and go home or vice versa. We went through 2 deployments to Iraq, had to kids, and dealt with an alcohol addiction, but lately I just feel like we are fight a war that can't be won. It seems like something is always against us. We decided to seperate before his last deployment and the first few months were hard but then I started to move on...went back to school and learned to depend on myself I also met someone we arent anything more then friends but i do want more and my husband came home from iraqthe other day and he wants to give us another try and i want to for our kids and because our vows meant something to me, but im scared to give up everything i have now for us to just fail once again...what would you guys do?

2007-10-25 13:10:34 · 14 answers · asked by xundefinedbeauty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is it that people cannot stay single?I mean why is it soo important for them to be with someone to have a partner?Im not against it but i'v seen people who have been single for a lont time and its surprising how they can stay single that long! lolzz nawww for real how do those people end up staying alone?Anyways so like i was asking why is it soo important for some people to be in a relationship?

2007-10-25 13:10:06 · 18 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5 in Singles & Dating

last week i stayed over one of my best guy friends house and he has always fancied me even though i just like him as a friend, but me and his older brother got talking and i ended up in bed with him and my friend doesnt know, and i can't look at him it's so bad! should i tell him????

2007-10-25 13:09:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I got married & live in CA and my husband bought a house before we got married, do I have rights over the house? No prenup was done.

2007-10-25 13:09:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok im goin to a halloween party and both guys r gonna b there and i like both, there equally hot and funny and smart and there friends with EACHOTHER and 1 said to the other he is gonna ask me out then the other said NO IM GONNA! i no its kinds dumb but i wanna go out with 1 i just dont no which 1! please help???????????

2007-10-25 13:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by kayteebug99 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, not that I should care or anything, but I'm really confused on whether people think redheaded people are pretty or not. I'm considering dying my hair brown, so I'd like to know. I think it's beautiful, but apparently noone else does. What do you all think?

2007-10-25 13:08:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm struggling to decide whether to do seating at my wedding reception or not. I can think of pros and cons with each way. The biggest con is that it will be hell to determine who sits with who. Do you have any thoughts/suggestions? Please help.

2007-10-25 13:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings

The bra has a split in the middle of black lace cup, and of course it's not for everyday, just for special occasions, if you know what i mean. When I got the package i decided to show a few of these mail ordered items to my husband, well he said this bra was "tacky".
First of all, it was so gay of him to use this word - i still can believe he said it instead of having fun with it.

2007-10-25 13:07:27 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 13:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sammie 3 in Marriage & Divorce