The bra has a split in the middle of black lace cup, and of course it's not for everyday, just for special occasions, if you know what i mean. When I got the package i decided to show a few of these mail ordered items to my husband, well he said this bra was "tacky".
First of all, it was so gay of him to use this word - i still can believe he said it instead of having fun with it.
2007-10-25 13:07:27 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am not fat, I am normal 34-24-34 5'7
2007-10-25 13:25:51 · update #1
yes, he prob has a bit of Madonna synd. and Why the change answer was good, and the reveal slowly, and he just like all naked answers were all good, ..... hhmm can't decide
2007-10-27 08:56:22 · update #2
In a marriage the key to success is communication, so instead of asking US, ask YOUR HUSBAND!
Tactfully!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-25 13:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by bugsie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, actually, I also find those bras tacky. My ex-husband was gay. He could have cared less what I wore to bed. (I should have realized...) So, find something NOT tacky and try it out. Victoria's Secret usually has less-tacky things. If he doesn't like lingerie at all, start getting ready for his coming-out speech.
2007-10-25 13:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Serena 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all respect, I think your man is not very open minded. Due to lingerie is supposed to be fantasy sort of speak. To bring more spice to the bedroom. Not saying that it does. But a little variety in the bedroom is good. Next time, try to see what brings interest to your man. What is he into? What draws his attention. Then go from there. But I will be honest if he is not open minded, lingerie is the least of your worries that you have to worry about. Good Luck
2007-10-25 13:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Aychalak323 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dress up in it under normal clothes and start to make out with him and then slowly reveal the bra while providing oral pleasures to him and I think that he will change his mind about the bra.
2007-10-25 13:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by bare underneath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just say, "it was so GAY of him"??? You said this about your husband? Interesting. Think of your problem, then think of what you just said about him, and you might have your answer. Do you think that he just hasn't come out of the closet yet? I am not trying to be a jerk, I am really serious, it has definitely happened before. Good luck.
2007-10-25 13:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lilith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is prob. not in to that kind of thing. Ask him what he wants in the bedroom. I know u want to feel sexy and some change in the bedroom. I would ware the stuff anyway and make him enjoy it maby he will come around. good luck!!!!!
2007-10-25 13:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think using the phrase "it was gay of him" is far worse than him saying something was "tacky" but whatever.
Maybe it just wasn't his preference. My husband has never been one for lingerie- he thinks I'm sexy in anything and prefers me naked.
2007-10-25 13:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by P&Rsmommy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of the Madonna/whore symdrome? Some men cant stand to see their wives as ultra sexual because they are their wives and perhaps the mother of their children. Perhaps he thinks women who were sexy lingerie are nasty -too bad for him -he's got some issues.
2007-10-25 13:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is into other lingerie. Talk to him and see what he likes. Or maybe he just wasn't int he mood that night and knew hat to say to kill the mood. Whatever it was he lost out.
2007-10-25 15:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is considered sexy to one man is not sexy to another, some would not think those thins sexy, but would find you very attractive in a pair of under ware and one of his oversized shirt,
2007-10-25 13:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww...Did he hurt your feelings? I would say that if sex is normally good for you and he is turned off by your cheap approach, he probably just has better taste than you. If it ain't broke don't fix it. Ask him what he does like and go from there.
2007-10-25 13:12:15 · answer #11 · answered by TatersPop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋