last week i stayed over one of my best guy friends house and he has always fancied me even though i just like him as a friend, but me and his older brother got talking and i ended up in bed with him and my friend doesnt know, and i can't look at him it's so bad! should i tell him????
2007-10-25 13:09:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can also just say though i was pretty drunk and i have spoken to his brother before, i've been on holiday with his family!
2007-10-25 13:15:14 · update #1
i bet most of you have done the dirty on someone you shouldnt have!
2007-10-25 13:20:30 · update #2
You should tell your friend. Of course he would be upset, who wouldnt????!!!!!! If u dont like him then tell your friend that and it was all a mistake. And, your sorry for everything. Your friend would probably be mad at you for a while.
If u DO like him then still your friend. Again, he will still be mad at you though. If your friend doesnt think that your a good person for his brother then he probably doesnt think highly of you. Just do what ever you think is the right thing.
2007-10-25 13:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him? No need, it will all be around town in no time. Great bunch of boys in that family. Where's dad? Asleep in the car?
I suggest a seminar in "Impulse Control" for all of you! You have really mucked it all up now. Your self-esteem must be nil. What would it take for you to actually use your brain before doing the Ol' Lean Back?
Ok, young lady, no "I Love New York" for you for a week. Now, take a shower and go to bed. Go and sin no more.
2007-10-25 13:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. You've got two problems here.
Yes get your mate in a corner and tell him that you will only ever be friends. Make sure he is clear as crystal on that.
No don't tell him you slept with his brother while he dreamt about you. And make sure brother doesn't either. Offer him a kick in the nuts if he lets you down.
2007-10-25 13:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him, if you dont he will end up hearing from his brother or from one of his brothers mates...guaranteed. Dont put yourself in a position where it looks like youve been keeping secrets from him but make sure you dont make it seem like a big confession... you havent really done anything wrong (unless youre underage) as you werent dating this guy. Big tip though, dont start sleeping with guys just like that...try keeping sex within relationships, i cant begin to tell you how much better it is both physically and emotionally. Good luck
2007-10-25 13:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by CMCG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He never took the chance to ask you out
and do something about the way he felt about
you and he should have made a move.
Its not your fault.
PEOPLE,YOU NEED TO STOP LOOKING AT PEOPLE
LIKE THAT AND CALLING THEM A "WHORE".
she may have had control over it,but she never had feelings
for him,and did with his brother.He didnt make the move
before his brother and lost his chances with her.
Now for you;
Ok look,youll need to tell him anyways.It would be better
to hear from you then his brother or someone else.
Then if he still is willing to be friends,and its not
akward,then your freindship may survive.
2007-10-25 13:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
nice one :P
You've basically messed up big time...
anyways...how mad would you're friend be if you told him? Are you and his bro serious, or was it just a one time thing?
What do you value more, his friendship, or your peace of mind...
if he's gonna be mad, then don't tell him, at least for a while, if you think you could work it out, tell him, but assure him that it was nothing, and that it wont happen again.
if it was SOMETHING, then you shouldn't tell him, until your relationship becomes public, then everyone will know :P
2007-10-25 13:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol personality i think you should tell him i mean you dont like him
as more then a friend it may be hard at first but if u dont tell him things r just going to get worse. Don't let things bottled up its bad thats what happen to me i didnt tell my mom my tattoo got infected. Be4 u know it ur going to explode BOMB! lol sry got little carried away anyway just do what u think is right i think he deserves to know :D see ya
2007-10-25 13:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Just A Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty bad. But I won't act holier than thou because my buddy found me in bed with his sister and you know what he did? He punched me right in the face. I wasn't even angry at him for it, I deserved it. But still, would've been better if I got laid instead of punched in the face. Our relationship has never been the same. He has a real grudge against me now and I'm afraid hes gonna try to sleep with my sister. So, I'd keep it a secret. This is one of those things you keep secret for sure.
2007-10-25 13:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What says his brother won't tell him? He should hear it from you, I think you owe him that much respect at least. If he's a friend and you've made it clear you aren't into him in that way (and you haven't been leading him on) then you aren't responsible for his feelings in that regard. However, you do owe him the truth. Good luck.
2007-10-25 13:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he fancies you, then he's not gonna be thrilled to find out you slept with his brother.
He's going to find out eventually so you may as well tell him. BUT again if he does indeed fancy you, he may not want the friendship to continue. Sorry but thats just guys!
2007-10-25 13:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋