ok im goin to a halloween party and both guys r gonna b there and i like both, there equally hot and funny and smart and there friends with EACHOTHER and 1 said to the other he is gonna ask me out then the other said NO IM GONNA! i no its kinds dumb but i wanna go out with 1 i just dont no which 1! please help???????????
2007-10-25 13:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by kayteebug99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Toss a coin. Say heads "G1", tails "G2". Whatever pops up you'll either be happy or a little disappointed, either way you'll know which guy you really want and go from there.
2007-10-25 13:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go out with both and treat them both as good friends maybe after the night is over you'll discover which one means the most to you. I'd say look for the one that puts your needs and feelings ahead of his own.
2007-10-25 20:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by little_leo45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you see yourself with in the long run. Which one has more potential. I think that your situation will always be hard because if they are friends usually the friendship doesn't last very long after a girl gets between. Girl or boy it doesn't matter. Go with your gut. Good luck!
2007-10-25 20:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont commit to either one at the moment. spend time talking and dancing or what not with each... if you dance with one and the other doesnt ask you to, tell guy #1 u gonna ask guy # 2 and i hope you dont mind, i just wanna have fun.....then go ask him
keep your options open, play a little shy and hard to get. see who appeals to you more and who goes after you more.
the one who goes after you more could just be doing it a little more as competition to his friend.
so give the other another chance.
be upfront and honest if it comes to the point and tell them both u like them both.
i dunno what else to say...if they both really wanna date you u have a tough desision to make and i know its not easy.
just dont rush into anything
2007-10-25 20:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by tj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with both of them and choose the best hahaha
I am a guy and telling you this messed up strategy
2007-10-25 20:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just choose the one ur more attracted to. but if u already said yes to someone u have to honor ur commitment (which i know sounds really stupid!) but u can't blow someone off like that or u could just say no to both of them and go w/ ur friends..that's always more fun!! =)
2007-10-25 20:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by K.I.S.S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u like them and everything but just hope that the friendship between the two of them doesn;t get ruined. It's up 2 u.
2007-10-25 20:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be wierd, but i heard of making this choice before, just pick the one with darker hair.
2007-10-25 20:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by dellman12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go to the party and say yes to the guy who asks you first..
Good luck! :)
2007-10-25 20:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by kayy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your heart skips a beat, that's the one. If it doesn't , then just have some fun, cause it won't matter.
2007-10-25 20:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋