My brother is going to be a dad....?

Question

He is going to be a father - he is 32 years old but has not grown up!!! I love his girlfriend but I think she is doing this to spite him.. I want to be a good aunt - but I hate budding in.... I want to make sure this child is taken care of... I know he would be a good dad - and she is a queen... How can I get them together???

Answer 1

this is their relationship and their problems, you can't butt in and say "okay now be together" or "okay let me do this for the kid" if he hasnt grown up, then you need to let him handle everything and let him start learning how to be responsible. who knows maybe they were not meant to be so you can't pressure them to stay together

Answer 2

You can't control the fate of your brother's relationship. From what you said, i'm going to guess that your brother and his girlfriend broke up?

You can be a good Aunt, whether your brother and his girlfriend get back together or not.

If you don't have a degree in Matchmaking, you probably need to stay out of your brother's affairs.

take care.

Answer 3

Having a kid can force people to grow up in surprising ways. I'm sure your brother and his girlfriend will get their own issues sorted out together. All you can do is be supportive.

Answer 4

what do you mean get them together?
Sounds like he used her for sex and dumped her, or they jumped in bed before realizing they cant stand each other.
They BOTH need to grow up.Dont worry though, when the government makes him start paying CS he will do some growing up then.

Answer 5

theres nothing you can do.
its their life their relationship.
they arent together for a reason.
as long as you are being a good aunt, your job is done.

Answer 6

Can't.