My boyfriend of 3 years and I decided to break up about 2 weeks ago. I've been going through a lot of S*it and it hasn't gotten any better.
I've been dating someone else for the past week and he completley broke my heart and it's been a mess.
My boyfriend (of 3 years) and I had plans for about a month for him to come up this weekend to see me and we were going to get a hotel and have "alone time" together and it was supposed to be romantic.
Once he found out the other guy and I broke up he decided that our plans were back on again and he was coming up.
I'm so stressed out and upset I don't want this "alone time" I want to go back home to see my mother and father and just relax for the weekend. I just don't want any guy in the picture for this weekend. I just want to unwind from this messed up week!!
When I explained this to him he got very angry and wouldn't talk to me. He told me that it was quote un quote "to bad" and he was coming up this weekend!"
WHAT DO I DO!!
2007-10-25 14:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go home to your folks and relax. Turn your phone off. You've already communicated what you needed to.
2007-10-25 14:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So he broke up with you and now wants to come back for some nookie. Does not sound like he wants to get back together - just wants to get laid. Can't blame you for not wanting in on that.
Call him - tell him you made plans to go home and see your parents this weekend. Therefore you will not be home. You can't stop him from coming up but you will not be there as you made other plans.
Then if he comes up and the door is locked and your not home - it's on him. You told him.
2007-10-25 21:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it like this if you want to go back home to see my mother and father and just relax for the weekend go do it. It doesnt matter cuz if he still loves you or have feelings for you he will understand and if he doesnt then it is quote and unquote "to bad" for him because he doesnt deserve you
2007-10-25 21:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Hank843 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a stalker who just wants to use you for sex. Tell him "too bad" and 1. don't show up at the hotel. 2. stay at your parents or a girlfriend or go away somewhere else with a friend.
2007-10-25 21:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you dont want alone time...u want ure mom and dad...and that its too bad he broke up with u in the first place...and ure over him so he needs to get over you...
I hope this helps girl,
Good luck
2007-10-25 21:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry a loaded shotgun.
2007-10-25 21:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lock the door, leave, go to ur parents house, dont tell him.
2007-10-25 21:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be gone before he gets there!
2007-10-25 21:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even kidding
I was depressed before
then I prayed an hour every night
it got better
I promise do it please
2007-10-25 21:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋