my sis is so mean. Because im alot thinner and healthier than her she always seems to put me down. I have to earn all the things i get like chanel, hollister, dior, abercrombie all that stuff. She always borrows my stuff and gives it back a month later and then when i ask her for something she always says noe shes 27 honstly i think she has enough money to buy her own stuff. Shes like a little chubby and i do alot of sports and im thinner than her and she always stretches out my shirts and shorts it sucks.
I love her to death shes really mean to me sometimes.
She even was like enturrupting me and my boyfriend on a date and shes just horrible
2007-10-25 13:39:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom never treated her the way she treats me now so i guess thats it. Me and my friends are really popular and she thinks we are becoming sluts. Shes not abusive she just takes my stuff without asking and i hate it.
I really want to move to california to go to college and become a cosmetic surgeon and she thinks im never gunna get where i wanna. And sh HATES my boyfriend. She thinks hes a player and just using me idk help??
2007-10-25 15:33:24 · update #1
People who don't feel good about themselves tend to put other people down to make themselves feel better.
This is your sisters' problem, not yours.
You can, however, put an end to her abuse of you. You need to stop allowing her to use your things and you need to tell her how you feel when she treats you so bably. Be honest with her and let her know that you will not allow this to continue and if she does not change then she simply needs to go her own way and leave you alone.
Never allow anyone, relative or not, to abuse you, whether it is physical or verbal makes no difference.
You do not deserve that kind of treatment, especially from your sister!
She needs to seek professional help if she cannot come to terms with herself.
It might help if your parents could step in on your behalf as well.
I am surprised they haven't.
2007-10-25 14:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHY.....WHY do you let her borrow your stuff if shes going to be unfair about it, plus you say shes ruining your clothes by stretching them out, i mean how are you going to fit your own clothes? you may as well slap them down to her, she'll be even happier. you have to come to a point where you have to say NO, those are your clothes you need to take charge, when she comes up to you asking, then point out why you never get to borrow anything from her?
2007-10-25 20:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋