The other night, out of the blue, my fiancee asked me to put her thong on. I said no, but the more I resisted, the more she asked and just wouldnt let it go. So I finally gave in and put them on for her. I have to admit that it felt totally different from wearing boxers. I really liked the texture of them and the way they felt to wear, but I am embarassed to admit it to her. I kind of want to do it again, but what do I say to her? Can any women out there tell me if this kind of thing is ok from a woman's standpoint?
2007-10-25 15:56:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some women (including me) find it sexy. Mind you, there are also women who would be upset by it.
2007-10-25 16:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, while reading your post I was going to tell you to stick to your guns and not compromise your feelings because your entitled to them. But after continuing to read I think you may have been okay with it in the beginning you were just embarrassed about it. But being that she was totally into, I don't think you have a reason to be scared just tell her, that you kind of like them now and go from there. Don't worry about the people who don't think that its ok, bc this is you and your fiancees relationship and the only expectations your trying to fill are the ones you and she define.
Good Luck! & Congrats on the engagement!
2007-10-25 23:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Most little boys dress up in mommy's clothes. You probably put on your mother's shoes once or twice and you do not remember it, so just ask her, you might be surprised. If she says, no, and asks you why you wanted to know that, just say - I read it somewhere that most little boys dress up in their mother's clothes because of the strong female influence in their lives at that age and move on to a new topic.
So, if she wanted you to, then it is ok for her. But if she hasn't brought it back up to have you do that again, I wouldn't say anything. She might have been experimenting - not with a fetish - but with a trust issue.
But, I have heard of men that secretly wear their women's underwear to work and then sneak them back into the laundry basket so they do not get caught by their women for being weird.
2007-10-25 23:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by rulestheroostwithkindness 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I'd feel comfortable seeing my husband wear any of my thongs... and I doubt he'd be comfortable in them, either. But as long as you and your wife are okay with it, I don't see the problem. Ask HER what she thinks about you liking and wanting to wear her thongs.
2007-10-25 23:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was her idea, maybe it was a turn on for her. Tell her you want to wear them again.
2007-10-26 10:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does this for me and I love it! It was his idea, and he's definitely not gay. I would tell your fiancee the truth.
2007-10-25 23:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey we all have our kinks and this is yours.Just tell her.She might like that you like.Never know untill you communicate with her.Very important.
2007-10-25 23:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do in the privacy of your bedroom, stays there.
Kind of like what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.
2007-10-25 23:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Becky J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yes its ok if your ok with it.. if it causes problems then you might not want to do it.. i never did figure out why women want floss between there butt cheeks lol give me the good old granny panty anyday lol..
2007-10-25 23:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she would be thrilled, as she is the one to ask you to do it to begin with. Rule of thumb.....HAIR, HIDE & FEATHERS, so long as you're both in agreement, and no one gets hurt.
2007-10-25 23:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋