2007-10-25 16:11:15 · 12 answers · asked by hbuckmeister 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have four kids, all teenagers now, and there was a time a couple of years back, we had no time for each other. Even at bedtime we were too tired to do more than cuddle. It came to the point I thought he might have completely lost interest in me, even though I knew he loved me and there was no one else. So I actually went to see my mother about this and we talked over coffee. My mom offered to take the kids for Easter week and gave us some alone time to rediscover one another and gave me a few suggestions. These were her ideas.
So, back row at the local drive in movie (if you still have one).
Cook dinner wearing nothing but high heels and an apron and insist he is also in his birthday suit.
Send birthday suit pictures to his cell phone and have him meet you at a hotel.
Just remind him he still turns you on.
There are a lot of ways to keep it sparkling. We have learned to manage around our kids schedule and have both made the effort to keep our marriage - "too hot to handle".
Good Luck.
2007-10-25 16:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by rulestheroostwithkindness 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do something special that you guys never did before...go out of town, spend quality time together no mobile phones no laptops...just the two of you. Go hiking or mountaineering.
If you think you neglected him with your time spend more time or give him a surprise visit in his office, take him for a lunch date, or prepare a special dinner before he comes home from work. Married life is not boring...the challenge is within the 2 of you on how to make it exciting.
2007-10-25 16:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by avagurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clear out his bank account. Sell all of his tools. Have an affair with a much younger man and tell him about it. It will be fun and believe me, this will cause more than a spark! Live a little!
2007-10-25 23:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book by Larus Corn. She is one of the best writers for that sort of thing around. She puts activies in her books for both of you, or you can use it as I did, just read both parts and act them out on him without him knowing you read it. Belive me, iot will definatly spice things up and there is not anything in there is is too weird.
2007-10-25 16:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Doodlebug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since she's in the marriage with someone else she tells him they have a problem and then they talk about solving the problem.
Marriage is not be be "saved" by one person....that never works.
2007-10-25 16:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Imagination.
2007-10-25 16:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be creative. you don't have to go anywhere and spend money. just put on a nice outfit light some candles, make his favorite meal. then you just let the night go from there.
2007-10-25 16:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by kristenbrianna0205 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spanish fly
2007-10-25 16:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Start respecting him.
2007-10-25 16:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what did she do when she was initially interested in her man?
why not do it again???
get creative...
2007-10-25 16:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋