i have not liked a guy/been liked in over a year. is that weird?

Question

i was in a relationship my senior year in hs for a year and some months. we broke up in a horrible way and it took me pretty much my whole freshman year of college to get over him. i don't get why i havent found someone else since its been so long. im sick of being single

i am an outgoing person, after my ex and i broke up i went through my huge party stage going out like 5 nights a week but now i calmed down and go out on weekends. im a really sarcastic person i think that pushes away guys sometimes too

Answer 1

Don't beat yourself up.. after going through a horrible breakup, it's good that you took some time out. Most people jump from one bad relationship to another.
Take your time, enjoy your life as it is... live in the moment, because it's gone in a second and it never comes back.

Answer 2

No, darlin', you're not weird. Perhaps your heart is still healing, or you haven't found someone who would be compatible with you. I bet you have high standards, so you haven't met someone who sparks your interest.

As for someone else liking you, the way others respond to us depends on the vibes we put out. If you are upset, you probably emit vibes that indicate a preference to be left alone, even if you're not consciously aware of it. It could be that your subconscious isn't open to a relationship yet. Don't rush romantic situations. When the time is right for you, it will occur. People are most likely to be interested in us when we're not expecting them. Most of the time, I meet new people after I've had a rough time and decided to give up on relationships. Right now, focus on giving yourself the love you'd like to receive from someone else.

Answer 3

Hey, if you can't find a guy in college you aren't trying. You probably could go anywhere on campus and find someone interesting. . Just get to know some people and start being yourself again. The way to look at your situation now is you can have a whole new life there, a fresh start. If you know your flaws you can do something about them. my god your in college

Answer 4

Nooo thats not weird at all.
I was in a long relationship with my ex then he left to florida without saying goodbye. I havent/been in a relationship for like a year. took me ages to get over him.
Recently [last 5 months] Ive met someone who has made me forget about him.. our relationship just happened out of the clear blue started from hello..
Like i said thats not weird at all, you'll probably find someone.
Just give it time.

Answer 5

Look long lapses in between relationships is normal even for over a year so don't worry you'll find someone else.

Answer 6

Well actually, your soo used to being with someone you get used to it then you are alone and tend to not like it, so you are constantly wanting to be with someone and think that no one wants to be with you or you cant find anyone, but honestly when your not looking, he will come :]..

Answer 7

its okay. been there. even though im way younger.. hehe.. actually being singles kinda great. you dont have to put up with taking your time for his birthday.. spending time with him everyday.. or whatnot.. plus people always expect things outta you.. like.. what i just listed.. even if you're not that kinda couple...maybe you should meet people in your college.. and maybe they'll like you.. whatever. i aint good at this... this only happened to me once..

Answer 8

if you are sick of being single, you should go out with me.

Answer 9

get out there and start dating girly! life is toooo short. enjoy it while you're here!

Answer 10

Enjoy your time alone, it is a blessing.