I'm not talking about being ok..
I'm talking about being content, focussed, happy.
Were you happIER with your ex-lover?
Have you ever felt true love? If yes, then are you serious about being happy (or happier) now that they're gone?
2007-10-25 17:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DEFINITELY!
No drama and it's quiet here. Been 4 1/2 years. What's not to be happy about? There is a HUGE difference between being alone and being lonely.
I'm just fine. Thanks for asking!
2007-10-25 17:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
200% happier, 200% more content. 200% better focussed. Yes I have felt true love...never said the person I feel it with is gone. Never said he was an ex lover. I am not married, don't live with anyone and that is how I like my life.
You can love someone and not be married to them, not WANT to marry them not WANT to live with them.
2007-10-26 03:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt true love several times. I dont' want to be one of those people who say they are happIER without another person, I think that's a cop out. But I do have to say I've always been insanely anxious when I DO have someone. Of course there were the drug like tremendous highs of falling in love. But people always seem to separate.
I have a lot of fun in life, and a lot of satisfaction- but I dont' think it's right to be alone, which is what I am.
2007-10-26 00:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im separted and soon to be divorced
with two kids that im raising
im happy as ever
i think ppl mostly need children to feel fulfilled
(most of the time)
men and women tend to have a natural inert contrariness
and competitiveness
when one finds out the other is staying to keep the marriage together
that person has leverage over the one who s trying to keep the relationship together
the more one gives in
the more the other disrespects the other partner
so the relationship further detoriates.
for me
i have friends only now.
occassionally i have sex
for me
i like plutonic love
they dont own me
and i dont own them
full respect stays intaked!!
without one having an advantage or disadvantage over the other.
im happy as a lark now!!!
2007-10-26 01:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married, but have spent long periods without a partner (still having sex occasionally with random people) and was more than happy and content.
Having a partner is an institution that is hard to break free from. You often have more satisfying relationships with people that like and respect space.
2007-10-26 00:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Judo Chop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned not to base my happiness on someone else, but myself. I'm extremely happy now that I'm married, but I was just as happy and content with my life as a single woman.
2007-10-26 01:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you and myself I'm a very lonely person, but I know that it's o.k. because even though I'm very lonely I'm never along. The Holy Spirit is with me. No I wasn't because I didn't know what true love was. I think I'm in love with a marry man, and I know nothing will ever come of this. It's not o.k. because I know that Satan knows my weakness, but he" never be able to defeat what is in side of me. I feel this way, and it's because I'm a human.
2007-10-26 00:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by God Fearing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was happier with my X lover as u put it so I went back to her.
2007-10-26 00:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Loverboy666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was truly in love with my ex. He gave me nothing but heartache. Now I live on my own, he's 800 miles away, and I've never felt better. It took me 30(something) years to figure it out, but I'm here. Never felt so relaxed in my life.
Thanks for asking this.
2007-10-26 00:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was really happy wheni was with my exbf and i thought i was in love but the truth was that i didn't love him i was just blinded by the fact a guy loves me i was totally waateing my time and if you are younger than 20 then save your love for the one you don't need love now u can mess around for now
2007-10-26 00:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋