I'm gonna sound like a bit of a whinner sorry, but sometimes you just need to get it out. My husband works on the giant windmills. He has been gone for two months. Thankfully he'll be home in five short days. But that is the problem. Life is so stressing right now, that I feel like this last two weeks has been an eternity. And the next five days don't even seem manageble. AHHHHHHHHHHHH! I just miss him so much, I'm sick of sleeping in this bed by my self, and I miss having dinner with another human! lol, we don't have children yet. *pout*. Sorry guys. Don't bash me
2007-10-25 17:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Jeez, cut yourself some slack. You miss the one you love. Better than dreading him coming home, yes? I am happy for you that you have someone you care so deeply about. It is a wonderful thing.
Please take care of yourself and have some fun and joy in your life. Find things to occupy your time and that bring you happiness just for you. Get out and get walking or doing something to relieve some of this tension so that he has a happy wife to come home to. You sure don't want to have him wishing he were back at the windmills, lol! Hang in there. We're here supporting you. You aren't a whiner. You are a human who can put her feelings into words. You're okay. Hang in there.
2007-10-25 17:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that you miss him. I'm sure he's glad you do. Lots of married people, with or without kids, would just assume be in different countries - for a loooooong time.....
Yeah, it's going to be hard - try staying busy w/ some friends or the internet or something, but in the long run, the more you miss him, the better it will feel to see him....... :o)
2007-10-26 00:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by chixwithkidz5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've got five days to pamper yourself girlie :) maybe you don't have a lot of money but you can go and get those cheap hot oil treatments for your hair, get some bikini waxing stuff, some fancy undies...I dunno get yourself some things that make you feel pretty...you said you don't have kids so you can spluger a little...there is always room for it on special occasions like this :)....yes I'm sure thes five days will go by faster than you think :) good luck hon...I'm in the same boat except my husband has been gone 3 months and I'm not gonna seem him for about 3 to 4 weeks yet....sigh...anyways I'm happy for you :) have fun!
2007-10-26 01:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ria B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can concentrate on getting everything ready for when he gets home. Have everything clean, maybe cook and freeze a couple of meals. When he does finally come home all you will need to do is spend some quality time with your husband.
2007-10-26 00:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some volunteer work or go out with some friends. Ask someone if you could babysit their kids. Call you mom and talk to her. There are lots of things to do. Clean your whole house so it is ready for him to come home.
2007-10-26 00:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chameleon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is great you miss him so much, but if it is controling your life that is called obsession.
It is tough when you are apart, but remember to take advantage of the time you have together. Look forward to him coming home, but don't obsess over it.
2007-10-26 00:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There's no bashing. You're allowed to whine. But, you signed on for this when you married him. He needs to find another job, or you need to occupy your time. Find a compromise.
2007-10-26 00:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should be thankful that your husband isn't in Iraq for 12-15 months like some of our husbands are.....
2007-10-26 00:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Awww....that is really sweet. :) Personally, I'd spend the next few days getting ready....new lingerie, candles,flowers,wine and his favorite meal.....you will be very busy the next few days and the time will fly. Hope you have a terrific homecoming.
2007-10-26 00:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well that's what happens if you center your whole life around one thing its like putting all your eggs in one basket and we are all warned about that. haven't you been told that tomorrow isn't promised to you and guess what its not promised to your husband either so you might want to get a life of your own like friends and family to socialize with and find some type of activity to get involved in.
2007-10-26 00:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋