I read a post the other day that girls actually hate guys who spend money on cool toys and image. I was under the impression that "Image is everything" and so i wear designer clothes, shoes, gold jewellery, expensive TAG watch etc.. and drive a tricked-up convertible sports car all in the belief that it all helps to "impress the ladies". However i always see a lot of hot girls going out with guys who are unemployed, poorly dressed derro's, potheads and dropkicks and often wonder why i bother..Have i been misled? What's the go here?
2007-10-25 19:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure there are SOME girls who go for the 'image.' But most girls, believe it or not, go for PERSONALITY. All the toys in the world won't help if you are a jerk. And besides -- do you WANT to be with a woman who's only interested in your toys and image?
Spend less money and more ENERGY on developing your social skills. Don't FAKE being nice and funny, try to actually BE nice and funny and polite. THAT will get you women!
2007-10-25 20:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool Toys For Guys
2016-12-17 18:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by cutter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sweetie, depends on the chick. Personally i like a guy whos a little more laid back. Doesn't have to spend a whole bunch of money on his clothes since i damn sure don't... Its about looking good, not looking better than the girl. :) The car is a plus (tho Trucks are better, unless its a corvette but thats jsut cause i'm a chevy girl and love them) Guys don't want a high maintenance chick that they have to listen to and put up with, neither do the ladies. Maybe keep the car, the nice jeans... but pair it with a casual t-shirt you buy from JCPennys. Lose the Jewelry, or make it silver. lose the watch cept special occasions. We want Nice but Casual
2007-10-25 20:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Insomniac Tryin to Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who work too hard on their image tend to give the impression that they are self centered and think too well of themselves. Sometimes this is true! Also, no girl enjoys sitting around with a guy who is busy fiddling with his gadgets rather than giving her attention and showing interest in her and what she is saying. So, there's nothing wrong with looking good but if you are coming across as materialistic and conceited about all the things you have, that will definitely NOT be appealing.
2007-10-25 20:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get to know him better. A few things pop out at me in your story. 1st. he never talked to you much before, is there a difference in you now, your appearance, or anything. 2. He says you are smarter and are going to go farther. could he just be looking for a person that's going to be able to support him or is he looking to the future and saying he wants someone who is willing to work and get ahead in life? If he is actually smoking pot it could cause him to lose his shyness around you but if he is shy then that could be a sign he likes you for more than a friend. so watch and see if he is shy around others. I know from experience that being with a pot head when you are not one causes a lot of problems in a relationship.
2016-04-10 06:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it really depends on the girl...some girls are attracted to the bad-boy type of guys while others are attracted to the stable and image - type of guys...i think its great when a guy dresses well, has a nice car and has a good image provided that he bought all those things himself (meaning not from parents- bec it would mean he is financially responsible and mature), he hasnt become too obsessed and swell-headed from his perfect image....also think that most girls look at a guys physical attributes (including manner of dressing) at first but would always end up looking for a great personality to match the looks....
2007-10-25 20:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA Punks like you cost poor Jews like me a lot of money. We always have to spend money to try to keep up. Oh wait, no we don't; we drive old beat-up pickups and wear Wranglers, teeshirts, combat boots, and Curve bought on eBay. You get dates because of the superficial: Good game. We get relationships because we are real.
Oh, by the way, we wear jewelry that we EARNED; my dog tag on a steel chain is worth a heck of a lot more than your gold necklace.
2007-10-25 20:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by agave_1986 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we do hate guys like you describe-sorry.
so you have been living a false life, buying expensive bling in the hope it will attract a lady? you do know you are not a magpie right?
we like a guy who is himself, who is honest, and sincere, everything else is superficial crap. Relax, be yourself, thats all we ask, and stop listening to the boys in the playground who need expensive toys to inflate their egos because they are lacking in personality and feel the need to over compensate
good luck
2007-10-25 20:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't want to deal with the ego that usually goes along with those toys
2007-10-25 20:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I love guys who feel the need to have the best in life. Your just meeting all the wrong type of women.
2007-10-25 20:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋