She is 20, Im 19, we went out for about 6 months, and we broke up 6 months ago, but we had sex after that, but no that much, then I moved away, n just seen her when I go visit back, but havent really talked about us, n stuff, just party. We broke up because she used to flirt n stuff, lie, we damn, so many fights, so we saw it wasnt gonna work, but I still love her, its just that I have a big STOP in my hearth not to be around her, n stuff. She is a lot in me moving away, the biggest reason probably.. anyway, since I left, she had seen other guys that i know, had sex with some, ive heard, n stuff, well anyway the thing is I still care when I hear those things, n i still want her to be successful n i care about her a lot.. Most of the things I do, I think what would she say about that, n stuff, its crazy. Is it ever going away ? or ? :P a new girl doesnt really work.. i just cant be real with them n stuff, n i compare her to them...
2007-10-25 19:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Young man , these are one of the adolescence period - There are a lot of fish in the ocean . Be patient in your fishing . You will be surprised as you will never know , until you try. - Don't brood over split milk.
2007-10-25 19:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by jjshri ram 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually, I was able to let go of past loves after going an entire year without them in my life. Totally without... no contact, no going to the same places, no emails or phone calls, no re-reading old love letters or looking at their picture or their Myspace.
The catch: If I ever saw them or heard their voice again, then that would reset the clock! So, even if I had finished my year of grieving time, just seeing them or hearing their voice again would get me right back into all the old love obsessions all over again. And then I'd have to re-do the entire year of no contact before I could get them out of my mind!
Some of us have a harder time letting go of love than others!
2007-10-25 19:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. First do you really know your in love? If you are then why aren't you fighting to get her back? Everyone fights no one ever has a perfect relationship, theres no such thing. Im with a 21 year old and Im 22 and we fight all the time because hes a flirt. But I love him and know its worth it. Just give her time to get the flirting out of her system and then realize that u were the one
2007-10-25 19:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by La~La 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-14 02:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst case scenario, 18 months to get over her. It helps if you get busy on yourself, like take up a new hobby, hang out with friends on weekends, but not the ones who are sleeping with her, and re-discover yourself. You'll be fine, trust me.
2007-10-25 19:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Laeticia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about men who love women that cheat on them and treat them bad? Haven't you suffered enough? Why not just meet other girls, and not start a relationship until you feel something strong? Why are you comparing other women to one that hurt you do badly? Are you looking to be hurt again? Try to learn from your mistakes.
What does not kill you, will make you stronger!!
2007-10-25 19:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on u young u will find someone better than her... u just hurt that it didnt work out its ok i was like u after 5 months it got better so good luck
2007-10-25 19:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to take your time in wanting another relation ship until you are over your x this will take time so don't be in a hurry for this to happen let your thoughts of her be honest and they will ease in good time, as time goes by so will she.
2007-10-25 20:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by CRUZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about everything and move on .............your still young and have a long way to go......get over it.........you will have to face a lot more in life.......so keep a cool head and enjoy life.........
2007-10-25 19:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Just one Baby is all I need 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You poor thing.
It is hard to mend abroken heart.
You will meet someone one day
Be strong.
2007-10-25 19:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥ lover from ozz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋