im 14 and im a freshmen in high school ive asked like 20 girls and all siad no what do i do?
2007-10-25 09:32:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its all about quality...not quantity... get to know a girl first... be their friend... don't just jump into a relationship.... that is stupid
2007-10-25 09:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anna J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your approach must be terrible or you dont have anything to offer. Freshman girls usually want to go with sophmores. i would play it cool, if you keep striking out your going to be know as the weirdo who asks all the girls out and word is going to get around and you will never get a yes. you are 14 i didnt have my first gf till i was 16. you wouldnt know what to do with a girl even if they said yes. wear nicer clothes, try and be funny girls like that if you can make them laugh. brush your teeth, always smell good, 2-3 squirts of cologne anymore than that is over kill. if you cant do that then thats where you need to start. good hygene is a must. do something that adds value so girls will notice you. sports team or a club or something. 0-20 is pretty damn bad. wtf could you possibly be saying to get that many no's. get several books at the library on how to get girls. it cant be the school library either it has to be barnes and noble or the local library. i hope your school is big.
2007-10-25 16:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by bigfrank1255 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm well you didn't really give much detail but...
1) Put a picture of yourself up, maybe an over-the-internet makeover may help
2) Maybe you're asking girls out of your league. An unpopular person going out with the really popular good looking person only happens in your mind, fairy tales, and disney channel movies.
Get to know the girls that are less popular, you'll probably find they are really nice!
3) Get to know the girls first; chat to them, hang out with them ect. Nobody really wants to go out with a guy they hardly know, and by asking when you don't know them suggests to a girl that you are cocky or joking.
4) Be a nice guy! So many men these days are complete jerks and they don't seem to realise it! Theres no harm in being a decent person.
It could be one of these, a mixture of a few or even none- I don't know. It's hard to work out with so little detail
2007-10-25 16:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by claireybearyfairy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, make her think shes the one you want, not just that you want a girlfriend so shes the next best thing, flatter her, offer to help, carry her books, walk her to class, make her feel like number one. ask her out as friends, show her a good time and respect her wishes and feelings. Hang out with her like friends is important, ask her out as more than friends later. plus you are 14 soo, these girls really aren't life decisions, pick a girl you like and just have a good time.
2007-10-25 16:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are way young to start this dating stuff...just be friends for now and enjoy the group fun of hanging out together. There is plenty of time for the singling out when you are older.
Be very smart and that is very appealing to maturing women...girls won't ever see beyond the obvious eye color or height or cute hair...immature still.
2007-10-25 16:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you come across as desperate... OR maybe they have no interest in you yet get to know them first Charm them, but at the same time gotta be a jerk just a little bit or you will get stuck in the friends zone it also lets them know that you know how to say NO!
2007-10-25 16:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jav 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't let that keep you down. There are plenty of other girls who will go with you. It takes time, so just wait and the right girl will say "yes." Hope this helps! Good luck! =)
2007-10-25 16:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Pudding 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep asking dude. Take it easy...dont just go up to them and be like "hey you wanna go out?". It doesnt work that way. Get to know the person you are trying to go out with. See what she likes and see if thats what you want. If its all good with both of you, ask her out to an activity date (not movies) or to dinner or just hang out. Take if from someone who knows rejection dude. Just take it one girl at a time. Someone is bound to say yes. Dont get down or lose faith. Your still young and got your whole life ahead of you. Good Luck.
2007-10-25 16:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Felix C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you ask out the wrong girls. You could not be in the same "click" as them or you could not be in their social standards. You
can't be ugly and expect some hot girlfriend.
2007-10-25 16:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Justin S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are more than twenty girls in the world.Don't be so straight forward,learn how to go with the flow.
2007-10-25 16:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋