he broke my heart and i dont wanna move on even though i know i should and returning a wedding dress is insanely depressing. there was another girl so i know i have to leave but he had become such a huge part of who i am, so now im lost not knowing who i am i would even know how to go on a date anymore. What if i never find someone that i can love as much as i love him?
2007-10-25 09:39:57 · 6 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The hard cold truth is there may never be anyone else. The question you need to ask yourself is, would it be worth giving up who you are and what you believe in just so you could be with someone? Also try to learn from this lesson that life has given you. Don't ever make your life all about and around some other person no matter who it is. You could have the most perfect relationship in the world but if something happened to that person, and you had never learned how to get by on your own, you would be in a similar situation. Try to keep yourself busy and develop things that are about you, and move on. That is really your only choice...good luck...
2007-10-25 09:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just a bump in the road of life. It will take time but you will be able to move on eventually. Just enjoy the time 'off.' Review the relationship, look for clues that you may have missed so that you know what to look for next relationship. They are not all bad, most but not all. You'll be fine. Get with your sisters, girlfriends or close family members for some major vegging out.
2007-10-25 16:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by bunny77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time, right now you should focus on yourself. Figure out the real you, he isn't what your about. It looks like some where along the line in your relationship you lost yourself, now you just need to find it again. I am not saying it won't be hard, but you will move on and when it is meant to happen the right person will come along. You won't be able to find love until you are comfortable with in yourself.
2007-10-25 16:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel the same way everybody has felt or will feel at some point.
The answer is that you will find someone else. And you will like them more and love them more.
He did you a favor by leaving now instead of later.
2007-10-25 16:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by crasher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for anyone, they will come when it is least expected and be glad that you didn't get married and then find things out. Keep the faith because things will get better with time. You will look back someday and ask yourself "what was I thinking?"
2007-10-25 16:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better now than 5 years and 3 kids...
Start looking for things to do.
take a class
learn to cook
get in shape
Time heals all wounds......
There a better guy waiting for you now....
2007-10-25 16:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋