hey i just got a boyfriend and his name is colin, i heard from alot of girls that hes a flirt. We are hanging out sometime this week we are going to hook up for the first time and he asked me if he could finger me. I'm in 8th grade and i'm still not sure about this.
I heard he doesnt last logn with girls but i really like him. Should i let him finger me? Is this a good idea? idk please help me.
2007-10-25 10:00:58 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
8th grade?! is this a joke? hell no!
2007-10-25 10:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice. I wouldn't if I were you. If you are not sure, then dont. Only do that when you are 100% possitive you want to. Give it a little time, let things progress between you two. The question is if you want a long relationship or not. If so, then you shouldnt be with him. And if you still try, please know if he wants to finger you on a first date then your relationship will most likely be very sexual.
2007-10-25 10:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy im in 8th grade too =]
listen i don't like the sound of this guy.
trust me, i've gone out with "players" and it
never ends well. i'm sorry to say it, but it
sounds like he only sees you as a physical plaything.
i dont think he likes you for you, he just wants
sexual stuff out of you, and at this age, it's
not right.
you shouldn't let him do that. he's a jerk
for even asking you!
trust me, if you have any doubts at all, it means that
you're not ready.
that's a good rule of thumb:
as far as sexual stuff goes, if you have ANY
doubts, DON'T DO IT. we're waaay too young
for this stuff right now.
he might yell at you, or tell you he's breaking
up, but that's a good thing because at least then
you know that he only wanted you for your body.
he sounds like he's not good enough for you.
i think you should break up with him; you
can do soooo much better!
don't let him do it.
you'll regret it later.
hope i helped! =]
2007-10-28 11:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by allisonnnn :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virtual boyfriend? Pathetic!
2016-04-10 05:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you gotta be kidden me?Dont think im lecturing you but i dont want your bad sweety.When i was your age i used to be like that too like i wanted alot of bf and wanted to lose my virginity and stuff but now since im lil older i realize that i dont wanna do that and how stupid i was to think that.Anyways you just started dating this guy dont let him use you like this! You gotta be more strong than that! Kissing is fine but nothing more than that...that to for an 8 grader?Hell Naww! So please talk my words seriously and dont do anything silly that you will regret in the future.God Bless!!!!
2007-10-25 10:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no dont do it!!! dont screw yourself up now... im sorry but you need to hear the truth... he is using you, how long have you been going out? 1/2 weeks? cmon don't do this, he will tell the whole school and they will all call you a slut... remember guys dont like sluts they just use them =( hope that helps!
2007-10-25 10:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ooh-La-La! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young for a boyfriend, and if you're asking on here, to young for anyone's hands down there except your own...
not a good idea.. when you want somebody" down there "it should be" invitation only"
2007-10-25 10:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he wants to finger u mean?
once i find out i will help u.
<3
2007-10-25 10:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by hot cheerleader25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wud say no, why u said it yourself ,, he dosnt last long with girls ,,dont even meet him , if he comes straight out with a statement like that,8th gade dont mean anything to me , from u.k so detter adding your age
2007-10-25 10:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold out for a while!!!
can ya all plz answer my last question!need help!!thanks!!
2007-10-25 10:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Pixie-Flames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋