like she is not leaving any time soon.how could i tell her that she must leave...mind u i have 3 teenagers of my own.
2007-10-25 08:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by pebbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You just have to be firm with her. Give her a reasonable time to get her stuff together. Does she need 2 weeks, 30 days, 45 days. Be fair and offer to assist her in moving her stuff out when the time comes.
As to how to approach her.. You sit down one day and say.. "friend.. I know you're going through a rough time, so I'm going to give you ( insert time) to get organised and get a place of your own. I wish I could keep you longer but, my family is/ I'm starting to get anxious about you being here and I need to get things back to our families routine as quickly as possible. I'll help out where I can to make it easier on you. Then give her a big hug and offer her a cup of tea or whatever beverage you wish.
2007-10-25 08:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear God another welfare case. Tell her to quit haveing kids for one if she can't take care of them on her own. Give her a deadline to be out by if she doesn't do anything to try to meet the date then you are just going to have to kick her out. She will have to find a way to survive then. Mabey next time she wants to spread her legs she will think twice before doing it. God half of these mothers think that just because they have kids that they desearve to be taken care of by the government or by people they know. I understand the kids, but there is nothing you can do about that. If nothing else call social services and tell them your friend is homeless with a baby. Normally they take the baby untill the mother can get stable to take care of it. This is probably the best thing you can do. Or she will take advantage of everyone and burn bridges everywhere and nothing could come out of it good.
2007-10-25 16:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by sarah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit her down and tell her that you've enjoyed having her there, but she must get settled somewhere in her own place before the new baby comes along.
Tell her you'll help her look and get her enthusiastic about the fun you will have together, getting a bedroom ready for the baby / babies etc.
2007-10-25 16:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by jo :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take a biology class. You shouldnot be ablr to get pregnant in the first month after having a baby. Your body does not start ovulating that fast.
she is a freak of nature.
2007-10-25 15:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did not give her a time limit when you invited her to stay, i guess you might have to have a chat with her now, and ask her what her plans are -- it was nice of you to want to help, but at the same time, you already have a housefull of people over there.
take care.
2007-10-25 15:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋