2007-10-25 07:32:04 · 31 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First you should tell him that you find his cursing disrespectful, you don't appreciate it and you like it if he would make an effort to stop, esp around you. If he continues...give him some orbit & drop his *** like a bad habit...you don't deserve a dirty mouth boyfriend
2007-10-25 07:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nemos Mom 2.2.10 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has lost respect for you in more than one way. I would hope that you havent either. You deserve better!!!!! You will go through alot for love but you must learn from it. Mr. Right is out there! Always remember that when the cursing is the condition and not the expection it is time to move on. I hope that you find the right person for you. Good Luck!!!
2007-10-25 15:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by AZ Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he curses at you, shut down and simply say, I am not going to speak to you until you respect me. Whatever you do, don't curse back. Then the war just gets worse.
He probably has some underlying anger. He probably never learned or was taught how to communicate appropriately. He probably even needs some help.
Yelling obsenities is not healthy for any person or their victim.
2007-10-25 14:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is he cursing at you? Is this just a regular part of his speech, or is he actually cursing AT you? If he's being verbally abusive, you need to move on. End the relationship and avoid him at all costs. Make sure you have a support system in your family and friends, in making sure they help keep him from bothering you.
2007-10-25 14:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by RetroDiva65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like getting cursed at? Let him curse at someone.
2007-10-25 14:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by buster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is probally not but knowing the type of person that you are you probally will stay with him until you have some kids then you will stay for the kids and hope he changes but he won't so I would leave now.
2007-10-25 14:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by bobby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't deserve it. I don't know why he curses at you, but he is lacking in self-restraint and respect. Give him his walking papers. Find someone who treats you right.
2007-10-25 14:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! I SAY LEAVE NOW BECAUSE I BET HE SAYS I'M SORRY IT'S JUST THAT I GOT A LITTLE UPSET, I KNOW IT MAY NOT BE EASY TO LEAVE. DON’T YOU THINK HE SHOULD HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU. I DON'T THINK YOU WILL BE LEAVING ANYTIME SOON SO TRY COUNSELING BEFORE YOU TWO THINK OF GETTING MARRIAGE OR HAVING KIDS. CHANCES ARE HE’LL NEVER CHANGE AND YOU’RE SILLY FOR STAYING.
2007-10-25 16:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by CUTIEBUG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him about what you feel and give him a chance to change his ways. If he can't or even doesn't try then it's time to leave him. It only shows he has no respect for you...
2007-10-25 14:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Hwang_Jini21 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no! thats so disrespectful ..and it will only get worse the longer you stay with him..trust me on that...my aunt had a boyfriend like that and then she married him and he beat her and now he is in jail..but DONT stay with him..it probably WILL get worse
2007-10-25 20:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋