I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I am 20 years old and he is 23 years old. We are definetly in love and talk of marriage has been briefly mentioned. Although, in the last couple of times I have hung out with him, he really has been talking about marriage alot with me and always says that he wants to marry me someday and father my children. As great as it is to hear that from someone you love, I personally think it is too soon to talk about marriage all the time. I want to know why he feels the need to talk about it with me, and if it could be a way of keeping me around (a way of controlling me to stay with him). Don't get me wrong, I love him very much and someday I can see myself ending up with him, but I personally think that talking about something so important all the time somewhat defeats its meaning. Please help me with this situation and how I should handle it. What should I say back to him from now on?
2007-10-25 07:40:00 · 1 answers · asked by ITALIAN7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him this. Be honest, let him know how you feel. You failing in your part to the point that were not really able to see how he's failing. Nor is he going to see it, if you don't tell HIM about it. That aside your "worries" are quite valid IF this is all he is relating to you about, if its effecting your ability to relate and grow with each other then it could be yes control, or two he doesn't know how else too. If you talk to him, we'll know..... I mean you'll know, lol;-) good luck
2007-10-25 13:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋