They know i am like best friends with all the guys and girls going? yet they are still worried?
2007-10-25 07:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you were my daughter, there's a simple way you could persuade me. Ask the parents whose house it will be in to phone your mother and ask her to stop by.
She can meet them, express her concern, and let them show her where all of you will sleep, and where the parents will be.
No use asking the host parents to phone unless your mother knows them: how will she know it's not somebody pretending to be them?
If I didn't stop by for a visit the host parents in their home beforehand, my child wouldn't go. Period.
2007-10-25 07:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by noname 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have common sense if they don't let you do this no matter how much you whine and plead. You aren't dumb, you know why this is a bad idea. What's wrong with the boys staying until 11 or so depending on your age then going home? Nothing good can come from a mixed sleepover. You have something up your sleeve. Do you think the other kids parents would fall for this either? Your parents need to stand their ground on this one.
2007-10-25 07:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by KM 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are mature enough, and everyone else is too, talk to your parents about sex, since that is undoubtedly what they are concerned about, let them know what you feel, and who is there, if you are just friends, and any "love interests" will not be there, then maybe you'll have a good case, but if you are trying to BS them, I'd just give it up.
2007-10-25 07:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by jasmine e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, if this became purely a blended gender sleepover, i could ve permit you flow. yet pondering there s alcohol, i could by no potential permit you flow in case you have been my daughter. Alcohol places you out of your senses after which you need to do something you may by no potential ever recommend to do. no remember how mature my daughter became, i could by no potential permit her flow to a co-ed sleepover with alcohol till she s 21 while she would be able to of course make her own judgements.
2016-11-09 11:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea. i agree with your parents. you dont let young guys and girls sleep over together.. end of story.
years back. .in middle school.. the guys were allowed to stay late (10 pm) but had to leave b4 the girls bedded down for the night.
2007-10-25 07:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't try to persuade them. Just listen to them because they know whats best for you.
2007-10-25 07:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know its kind of tricky. How old are you? if your like 11-15 they are probley worried you will do something stupid any older then you should be allowed just assure them that you are perfectly safe
2007-10-25 07:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Applecrumble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just dont like the fact that there are guys and girls sleeping in the same house or room they just dont want you to do something stupid. how old are you?
2007-10-25 07:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by littlefaulty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask one of them to be a chaperon.
2007-10-25 07:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋