What if the guy is so shy, he won't look at you at all?
I mean, not even a glance, when I walk in the room at college. He looks about my age, 28-30. He's in 2 classes with me, but for four days. He had no choice to smile back at me once, but because he accidentally looked at me? what is wrong with him? Does he not like me at all? Or is he too shy? Give me some examples of how you may of acted before. Serious answers Please! Thank you so much.
2007-10-25 07:30:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally think he's not good enough for you and finds you intimidating. I know a girl that is extremly hot but im terrified of her! He may be looking at you whether you know it or not. We (guys) somtimes play the "im not looking at you game", meaning they really are and are sneaky about how they go about doing it. So he may really like you but cant pluck up the courage to do anything but look/stare at you behind your back or when you're not looking.
2007-10-25 07:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Tobin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest with you because i was once "that guy"...
It all depends on how he acts around other people. If he is more friendly and approachable around others then treats you very strange then i think it has more to do than him just being shy. I think that he might have a thing for you.
Usually you grow out of that stage by the age that he is... however people are all different. You never know.
If you are interested in him, which it seems like you are, then why dont you just approach and try to feel him out yourself. You may be suprised what you will find out.
2007-10-25 14:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by BIG TIM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be just shy as a lot of guys are. He might also be with someone else already. he might be trying to just put all of his efforts into school and does not want a relationship at this time. Try finding him outside of class and talking to him, if you think hes just shy then ask him for a drink or something. If he is attracted to you then he will probably go.
Good Luck
PS- There is one more possible reason: He might be gay.
2007-10-25 14:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys will look at you , but they will look away :)
Hard to tell cause there isnt alot of info ....
Talk to him! thats the best way to tell . Or show him you are interested. There is this man I am attracted to , he will smile at me the whole time I am in the room with him , then when I walk out & he is starring at me ... Goo mE!
aight now go you & work it
2007-10-25 14:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old to be that shy, I would say he's not interested or maybe gay. Its not like you have been in a relationship and have something to loose, let ti go and find someone that wants to be with you.
2007-10-25 14:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by onyx1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is shy, but he might also not like you at all. Give him afew signs that u want him to like you and see how he reacts if he shows signs he likes you there you go anbd if he dosent there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-10-25 14:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by Joshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and make the first move. I'm very shy and most of the women i dated made the first move.
2007-10-25 14:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by kevin02915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be very right... to see if he IS shy, try to start a conversation with him. if he resopnse in a shy way, then yes, he is shy. but try to make it easy on him if he is shy. be the one that is outgoing! try to show him that youre okay with him being shy. i bet he'll appreciate it all the same.
2007-10-25 14:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear Sky, he sounds really shy ! If he did not care then he would not be so shy ! So just be upfront and honest !
2007-10-25 14:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be shy or he could have just spaced out while looking at you, and smiled out of feeling like a loser.
2007-10-25 14:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋