Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

Im a girl and I am bi. I liked this girl for a while now and I thought that she like me as well because all of the signs that she was giving me. But I recently found out that she had a boyfriend before and I thought she was gay. Now I feel so crush like the whole world ended for me and I don't know how to deal with this. I constantly am in touch with her because we live in San diego and are currently experiencing wild fires. She called me very late the other night asking how I was doing. But I told her if i can call back tomorrow but i didn't and called her back 2 days later. I got her voicemail and left her a message. Then later on she called me back but I didnt answer because I was having dinner. So when I called her back again I had voicemail again. But then my phone was beeping because she was calling. When I was talking to her it was very awkward and I like forgot what I was supposed to say. So I had to end it right away.

Pls read my other questions for some background. Thanks.

2007-10-25 05:08:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there is this boy...Brenden.
He is grade higher then me.
I really do like him. He is one of mine and my sisters friends.
I try to talk to him (I have math with him together) but there is this girl that always talks to him and I can never say anything to him because she is ALWAYS talking to him. I say hi to him in the hallway between classes and a little in the morning. I am also to scared to ask him if he wants to hang out.
what should I do??...
oh and they aren't dating....
also what are some things should i talk with him about?

2007-10-25 05:07:27 · 3 answers · asked by Jenniefrizzzle 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been w/ my husband for 14 years and have been married to him for 10 years now. He has some anger problems and they are really starting to affect the way I feel about him. I have tried to talk to him about going to counseling to help him find ways to control it but he refuses to go and says he is working on it himself. I feel like it is never going to change and that it is going to get worse I have 2 children and I don't want to feel like I am giving up on trying to keep or family together. I feel that if he loved me the way he says he does that he would be trying harder to fix what he knows is hurting our relationship.I know I should proably leave but don't know if that is the right thing to do.

2007-10-25 05:02:16 · 13 answers · asked by C F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See there is myfriend who has a crush which i knew while playing TRUTH or DARE
I accidentally leaked it to mu best friend who spread it to the whole class
Now he knows this and my friend thinks im innocent
He now forces her to have sex with him at teenage while they both are virgins
What can i do to help???????????????

By the way we live in a HOSTEL and she wants to too
Soooooooo?

2007-10-25 05:01:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

big b o o bs like to wear clothes that show them off? If they do wear clothes like that, why do they sometimes get mad when men look?

2007-10-25 05:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was doing my job and my coworker was YELLINg at me called me names and pushed things at me! if i try to tell boss he dont care. or hr too! what todo? how to deal? i have to work there no quittin

2007-10-25 05:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before I got married I made my wife understand I have a Football Sunday rule: I watch Football for 12 hours every Sunday no exceptions!!! the rule is no exceptions!!! My family
( mom ,brothers sisters cousins ) know if they are getting married on a Sunday in the fall I will not attend. Birthday I am not comming christing or baptism better be early before the games start. No exceptions means no exceptions ever. Once I make 1 exception I will lose footballl forever and will always have to make exceptions. I am married 7 yrs now we have 3 kids my wife is starting to give me grief over the rule. Is the rule
wrong or should I stand by my beliefs which she agreed to before marriage. I watch kids on Saturday work a 60 hour week Sunday is my only day of rest. I take kids to mass Sunday before games start or Saturday afternoon. Please give me your advice.

2007-10-25 04:59:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know how I would kiss but lets say if you initiated kissing
what are your dreams.. ?? be clean please thanks

2007-10-25 04:58:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine told me that every time he has sex with a girl, I'm the only thing he can thing about.



Isn't that f****d up??

2007-10-25 04:57:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a person cannot hold down a job for longer than 6 months to a year...they cant hold a relationship down either?

2007-10-25 04:57:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because right know i would totaly take the finger because my gf and I are over and I feel realy bad need help?

2007-10-25 04:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by artistic side 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay a couple of weeks ago me and some friends had went out to my friends house. it was about 10pm when we all started to loosen up and sart flirting with each other. Every one that was there was Me, Tanesa, Charles, Josh,Jay and Pa. Long Story short me and Cahrles end up doing a little more then flirting.
it was a secret untill last nigh whn i told my friend Bria she though it was funny beacse Jasmine one of my other friends had sex with him too. so she told her that SHE(Bria)had sex with him.Today at school jaimine was all kinds of mad at me Tanesa and Bria. Was this wrong or Funny.

2007-10-25 04:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a strong resentment towards my mom because she was cruel, when I was 14. I made mistakes, was a teen, she gave me a harsh punishment though I sincerely regreted. She said I broke her trust and since I loved her despite my mistakes this let me reslly down and depresed. Though I pleaded for her trust and showed I deserved it she was extremely cruel and it months for her to trust me again. When this happened, our realtionship was destroyed, I've never got over this. Today at 24 I'm gradiated, have a good job, got over that fact but avoid my mom. Now she's a widow, went through hard times and I ended up lending her good money, she should pay me yesterday, upon her word. But she didn't and don't know when she will. I don't need the money, but it was my great chance to throw at her gace she broke my trust and she's not a teen. It was my great chance to make her take her own medicine. But my younger sister begged me not to. All I did was say she doesn't need to pay me. Lost my chance

2007-10-25 04:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anabela 1 in Family

So last night at about 11 I was woken up by my fiance talking in his sleep. He said "How are you doing ladies?" then started making a bunch of kissy sounds but sat up in bed within moments for a minute or two then laid back down and was cuddled right up next to me for the rest of the night.
Perhaps I'm reading too much into this but could it be an indication of some deeper meaning or subconscience thoughts?
I asked him what he remembered dreaming about this morning but he didn't remember anything about girls only a dream about looking for something in the fridge...
I shouldn't worry though....right?

2007-10-25 04:53:06 · 17 answers · asked by JD 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Well What makes them so much better than all of us right that is the big question the answer is nothing just don't be afraid to express yourself in front of the camera I don't understand why people would get nervous why when that money is on the line your blood is running warm you have goosebumps on your arms why but DO YOU HAVE TO BE FAMOUS TO GO OUT WITH A SINGLE ACTRESS ?

2007-10-25 04:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend Cory cant say no to girls sooo one of his ex's that he hates is going out with him cause he cant say no and shes bossying him around... and she wont let him talk to any girls he has as friends the only thing he can say is "Okay." and smile but thats it........

2007-10-25 04:52:32 · 18 answers · asked by MCR_LOVER! 1 in Friends

how should you feel if she tells this to you? should you be alarmed?

2007-10-25 04:51:48 · 24 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not thinking about having one. This is just something we were talking about at work. We are all split down the middle...

2007-10-25 04:51:32 · 48 answers · asked by jennyღ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My crush knows I like him or has known that I've liked him. Sometimes he's like everywhere I go and other times he acts like I'm not even there : ( He ad I are both REALLY shy with each other because I know that it is possible for him to like me from before. So what do u think. Do u think he likes me ?? or...Don't be too mean because I'm quite sensetive about these things : ) Thanx



Also for 2 days he was like hanging round where I was lunch time (yes we are still in high school) but the other day he didn't seem as interested : (


Yestareday he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he was walking towards me and when he saw me he turned around and started walking to where I was going.

Today we were in the common room and I heard one of his friends say my name does this mean he doesn't like me?Then lunch time he went to where I hang out. On the way out of school he was with his friends and he like made a weird noise (like a sorta scream?)

2007-10-25 04:50:46 · 17 answers · asked by Sara p 1 in Singles & Dating

got drunk last weekend and hooked up with this guy, didnt know at the time but now know he ended a relationship 3 weeks ago. Apparently he ended it, wanted to remain friends and possibly make it work later but she got mad and it ended bitterly. Also it kinda bothers me bc I am 18 and hes 21 so theres the age difference. Did i mean anything?

2007-10-25 04:50:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf is far away what kind of item could we give each other to remind each other of that other person

2007-10-25 04:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by mypigpin 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been seeing eachother a month and i am very confused as how to date because i was married for 3 years and im new to the game. obviosly i have to be patient and let things happen naturally i know. but i am working full time and go to a community college full time at night so my schedule is pretty full. so im making time for this guy and my concern is that i will get distracted and then my studied will fail and so on so forth.
so can i blatenly ask him if he will ever consider the thought or should i just **** with no feelings??
soooo confused please help! thanks

2007-10-25 04:49:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. We met on the internet by the way.

We see each other about once a week (we both have busy lifestyles... students, working, live about 40 mins apart, etc...).

He's 24 and I'm 18.

Really it's like we're on the same wavelength... I enjoy his company so much, and I think he feels the same for me.

The thing is... when people ask me what my plans are, to make it less complicated I just say 'I'm seeing my boyfriend"
But him and I never really discussed if we actually are gf/bf?

I feel silly bringing it up? How should I ask him, or should I at all???

Neither of us see other people, and we keep in touch the rest of the week when we don't see eachother... etc.

I'm seeing him tonight... I'd like to know if he considers me his gf. WHAT DO I SAY??!

2007-10-25 04:48:05 · 9 answers · asked by Cat K 1 in Singles & Dating

I remember when I was 16, I told my mother I wanted to live with my Dad. Understand that she had put me through hell for years (I mean violence, stealing, cops, legal proceedings, drugs, poverty, homelessness, and many other things), I just could not take it anymore. I stayed with her for years trying to help her but couldn't. So I told her I wanted to leave and she didn't talk for me for the whole week until I could get a flight out. And when I got on line she didn't want to say goodbye. So when I went to hand my ticket to the lady to board, I turned around to wave goodbye and she was already gone. She didn't call me for years and I had to call her years later to try to reconcile and it is not working. What is the one bad thing that happened to you that you won't forget?

2007-10-25 04:47:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

kissing him. I don't want to do this, he is gorgeous and i don't want something so silly to ruin what could be a nice relationship. How would you resolve the issue? I have thought about saying that English girls kiss differently and demonstrate how i like to kiss. Would this seem offensive? Any other ideas?

And i am well aware that there is a possibility he is just after a visa or anything else. I am taking things very slowly and not taking it too seriously. Any nice advice will be greatly apreciated. Thanks.

2007-10-25 04:46:22 · 22 answers · asked by Charlie 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 5 years now. she is 110% committed to me and I love her as she loves me. I never cheated on my gf and she never did as well.

two weeks ago, I met this girl at my church. my parents are close with her parents, and since she just moved to ny, she dont have any friends, so her parents asked me to be her godbrother and show her around.

she sure dont act like a godsister. she picks me up after work, treat me out, calls me at night... she gives excuses calling me late at night because her computer dont work well... when i go there next day, its fine... she is aware that I have a g/f and dated for 5 years but apparently it seems like she dont give a fukc.

i dont know what i feel about her, but i know for sure i dont want to hurt my g/f. how do i put a stop to this? it seems like im trapped. i'm afraid she will attack me (sexually) and i will give in. i dont want to hurt her (godsister) feelings either... WHAT SHOULD II DO!!!!!!!

2007-10-25 04:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of course you don't feel jealous of HIM, but you feel jealous for HER, right??

2007-10-25 04:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ash'ari Maturidi 5 in Family

how i can told him about this..what to do..he is very rude to people..

2007-10-25 04:44:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex husband recently remarried this summer and says he is over me. We divorced in 2005 and he started dating a week later. I am the one that filed for the divorce but later regretted it and wanted to reunite with him. He said it was easier to start new with someone else then to try to repair our problems. He denied dating anyone for a whole year and then told me this spring that he had gotten engaged in January. I was very upset because we had never stopped talking. We talked before, during and after the divorce about us being together. I had always hoped that our family would get back together and was crushed at that fact that he wasn't honest with me. If I had known, I would at least given up the idea of us being a family and would have moved on. He stills calls, emaills, or IMs everyday but it is not about the kids. Is this OK? Maybe it is not healthy that he still talks to me so much. Is he happy in this new marriage? Am I concerned about nothing?

2007-10-25 04:43:43 · 14 answers · asked by Special2God 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law sometime's call's our home and when i pick up the phone and say hello ~ she just say's hi is my brother their , Or if they have family thing's they call my husband and ask him to tell me to make thing's . How many of you think this is rude? He is the middle child and has a younger brother but im the only one who is marryed to him, His brother is not marryed or have a girlfriend some how cant keep one down. Please help if you know what i should do ~ Thank's

2007-10-25 04:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by impala2girl 1 in Family