Im a girl and I am bi. I liked this girl for a while now and I thought that she like me as well because all of the signs that she was giving me. But I recently found out that she had a boyfriend before and I thought she was gay. Now I feel so crush like the whole world ended for me and I don't know how to deal with this. I constantly am in touch with her because we live in San diego and are currently experiencing wild fires. She called me very late the other night asking how I was doing. But I told her if i can call back tomorrow but i didn't and called her back 2 days later. I got her voicemail and left her a message. Then later on she called me back but I didnt answer because I was having dinner. So when I called her back again I had voicemail again. But then my phone was beeping because she was calling. When I was talking to her it was very awkward and I like forgot what I was supposed to say. So I had to end it right away.
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2007-10-25 05:08:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now when I see her at school, this changes everything. Because I will see her differently now. I haven't seen her for a week because all school was cancelled. I liked her a lot and I really thought she felt the same. I don't want to tell her my feelings because I regret it. I hate rejection. She is a girl and I am too. So that will be very weird for everybody. Plus she had a boyfriend before so I will never have a chance. I think I fell really hard for her. Now i have to deal with her every freaking day.
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2007-10-25 05:09:13 · update #1
This sounds tough. The best way out of this would be to tell her your feelings for her. Do you like other guys? If so, chase a few to get your mind off of her. It will ease up the pain a bit. I can sort of relate to your situation, but I am straight. I once had a huge crush on a girl and kissed her, and later found out she had a boyfriend. The boyfriend constantly threatened me from then on and I told him I was very sorry. He accepted. Guess what? Now the kid that the girl was going out with and I are best friends! Can you believe that? So try to be the best friend that you can be towards this girl that you have a crush on. I know how it feels. It can hurt a lot. Get closer to her by being her friend, and be aware that she most likely isn't bisexual, as you are. So be careful about the people you tell that you like them, and the guys need to know that you are bisexual before you date them.
Be the best friend that you can be to that girl, and good luck.
~Damp
2007-10-25 05:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by dampsandwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bi or not to bi....that is the question!! Sorry babe, you don't get over crushes!
2007-10-25 05:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋