I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. We met on the internet by the way.
We see each other about once a week (we both have busy lifestyles... students, working, live about 40 mins apart, etc...).
He's 24 and I'm 18.
Really it's like we're on the same wavelength... I enjoy his company so much, and I think he feels the same for me.
The thing is... when people ask me what my plans are, to make it less complicated I just say 'I'm seeing my boyfriend"
But him and I never really discussed if we actually are gf/bf?
I feel silly bringing it up? How should I ask him, or should I at all???
Neither of us see other people, and we keep in touch the rest of the week when we don't see eachother... etc.
I'm seeing him tonight... I'd like to know if he considers me his gf. WHAT DO I SAY??!
2007-10-25 04:48:05 · 9 answers · asked by Cat K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do get where your coming from, i went through this with my now boyfriend (been together nearly 3 years)
We'd been together about 5 weeks and we were in bed together and i just asked him what he reffered to me when he was speaking about me to toher people, and he said he called me his girlfriend!
Basically the way i see it a name doesnt matter, its more important that you know where you stand, (is he seeing other people as well as you and how do u feel about that)
Just go with your gut instincts if u feel you need toknow then ask!
2007-10-25 04:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by hopper13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see did he say he likes you or did he say he loves you? You or him are not seeing other people,you both are on the same wavelength.And you both are going together.And you both like spending time together. I would have to say yes you are boyfriend and girlfriend.Well if you do all the things that boyfriends and girlfriends do then I guess you are together.Stop thinking about what to say to him and just injoy the time you spend together.He may think you all ready know that the two of you are together.
2007-10-25 05:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being silly. Enjoy your time together. Eventually the actual title will come out on its own.
2007-10-25 04:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Islander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he considers you his gf or friend. I would think that since ya'll are only seeing each other that would make you his gf, but to clear things up and know for sure you need to ask him.
2007-10-25 04:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell people you have a date. Why do you need to label him?
2007-10-25 04:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you are dating...until both of you feel to take it to another level called bf/gf status.
2007-10-25 04:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you guys are b/f and g/f because you do alot of things together. I personally wouldn't ask him. He might think your slow!
2007-10-25 04:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~Miss Lynn~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are. I wouldn't ask him b/c that would be kind of immature, labels aren't that important.
2007-10-25 04:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...you should spend more time together.
Yes, duh! He's your boyfriend. I don't think it's really something that lovers discuss. Besides, you don't get a boyfriend just to say you have a boyfriend. That crap is in 6th grade.
2007-10-25 04:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋