Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

does working nights make u grumpy?

2007-10-25 04:42:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm married 18 years (11 miserable) with 5 kids. I recently accidently found my first love on an auto parts listing (exactly 26 years to the day I last saw him). We emailed, and then he started calling. It's been like I'm 18 again.
He wants me & my kids to move to Canada, but there's no way the courts would let them leave the US.
I haven't filed for divorce, because I can't support 5 kids on my own, and I can't leave my kids behind, but I am miserable here.
26 years ago our parents kept Rob & me apart, and I have been very bitter towards them. Do I stay where I'm at for kids for the next 13 years?

2007-10-25 04:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by Outta Control 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 04:41:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 04:40:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was talking to the girl i like oday and she looked down most of the time and every so often shed look up and traight into my eyes. I that cus shegets nervous around me or something or maybe(cus she knws i like her) its because she doesnt like me at all and is trying to avoid my gaze?? please dont tell me to talk to her just answer the question(because if i had to write down the whole story id be here until next monday!!)

All help appreciated! :P

2007-10-25 04:38:35 · 9 answers · asked by no means 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 04:38:33 · 5 answers · asked by bibis 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone. My girlfriend has this guy friend whom she knows from her grad schools and they have been friends for over two years now. I've been with my g/f for over 07 months now and things are okay between us. However, I find it really annoying whenever my g/f hangs out or talk about this guy. Lately, when I was away for two days, I called her to say hi and found out that she was home alone with that guy all day long to work on their school project or something. Should I be worried about this guy hang around with my g/f too much? What should/ can I do? Please help! Thanks.

2007-10-25 04:38:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 04:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by Jenniefrizzzle 4 in Singles & Dating

I am one heck of a sexy chick. My BF's sister hates on me and is so jelous. I try to maker her more jelous by dressing up and making myself more beautiful. This way she's hurt more. Is it a good idea to mess around with her or should I leave her alone

2007-10-25 04:37:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I get legally married in 2 weeks to my fiance and then have the catholic ceremony when he comes come from Iraq in 2 years? His unit is getting deployed in April and he wants to be legally married before he leaves, just in case something were to happen to him. However, my family wants the Catholic wedding. I could do both but the catholic cermony wouldn't be the same as if we were getting married the first time..We were suppose to get married in May until we found out he was getting deployed. I already have my wedding gown ordered! I just want to know what other people think..thanks to all who do!

2007-10-25 04:36:49 · 26 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Weddings

I have this friend that is separated from her husband because of an affair he had on her.....
He claims he wants to work on the marriage but does not know that what ever comes out of his mouth is stupid and selfish.
I can't stand it!!!! I want God to knock some sense in his brain! lol. Help me! My girlfriend, ( the wife) patiently is waiting for him to change, and gives him WAY to many chances!
awwwhhhhhhhh.

2007-10-25 04:36:39 · 25 answers · asked by stormy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a new girlfiriend, we met about 2 years ago though an online dating site called millionairecupid.com but actually started dating in April, she is a soriority chick and has an ex with which she has to do greek stuff and alot of buddies that she used to hang out with.

I am out for summer from town and on the first day i was out she went out with her ex for a dinner, on the second she went with her buddies to the bonfire and snuggled with one of them...

is there any reason why i should not brake up with her? i like her alot and she calls me like every 2 hours, but i just dont know...is it normal for 20year olds to go for dinners with ex's and to snuggle with male friends without making it sexual?

Stuff she does just annoys the **** out of me, i just dont know if i should let her know about it or just dump her before i fall for her too hard


let me know wat u think..

2007-10-25 04:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 04:31:06 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

why?

2007-10-25 04:28:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know if he is the real men for me. he has all the features i love in a man.

2007-10-25 04:26:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 2 years. We have a 5 month old. We obviously aren't in a rush if we didn't get married already. But does actually being married change anything? Will our relationship be the same after we get married. Before you place judgement, I came from a differernt backround then some. My parent were never married. Therefore, it was never pushed on me that I "HAVE" to get married. But I'm wondering if it would make a difference.

Thank you,

2007-10-25 04:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 04:26:11 · 20 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been going to a bunch of weddings lately, and mine is going to be in June. I'm making a Do-not-play list so people don't have to hear the same songs they hear at every other wedding.

Here's what I have so far:
The Isley Brother - Shout
KC & The Sunshine Band - Celebration
Van Morrison - Brown Eyed Girl
Any Neil Diamond, any BeeGees
Abba - Dancing Queen
Bob Seger - Old Time Rock n Roll
B52s - Love Shack
Commodores - Brick House


Any other suggestions to keep our guests from running screaming from the wedding? I'm 25 years old, if that helps in any way.

2007-10-25 04:26:10 · 26 answers · asked by jugghayd 4 in Weddings

Why do u look at porn as a form of cheating?? I can not understand this, plz explain! Your spouse is not physically touching another female, is it cuz they masturbate to it? Who cares men need to relieve themselves it doesn't mean they don't love u or they want to have sex w/ the girl in the book or video. Men are visual people, thats it! Tell me whats the difference between porn and what 1 can watch on t.v late at night (in my town its called skinamax) its a movie that comes on late at night on cineamax and basically they have sex... So tell me can your hubbys watch rated R movies or is that cheating to! I just don't understand why u get so mad!! In my opinion I think your just not secure in your marriage, PLZ prove me wrong if thats not the case.

2007-10-25 04:24:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship. I do not like to nag him about a lot of things, but he is really disrespectful to me whether he realizes it or not. He still has a picture of him and his ex wife in his myspace pictures. It makes me uncomfortable. Not to mention his ex wife's myspace is FULL of pictures of him and her. I can't control that. I can't ask her to take them down, and I actually get along with her, but I don't think he needs pictures of him and her in his myspace. He deleted a bunch of pictures of him and other girls, but not this picture. I deleted every picture I needed to a long time ago. He knows I do not like it. Should I mention this again? We live together by the way! Maybe, I should just add a picture of my ex husband and me in mine so he will see what it looks and feels like. Or, maybe an ex boyfriend...Two wrongs don't make a right, but is it wrong for him to have it there or not?

2007-10-25 04:24:04 · 26 answers · asked by Teresa Dagger 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok people. my male friend and i have previously admitted feelings for each other but first we were both involved with othrs so it never happened, then i pulled away from him because i heard he had been with a friend of ours and had triedto hide it from me.(at that stage we were thinking again about a relationship)the night i find out i say ok, thats your business we not in relationship.then he says he wants a relationship and if i am uncomfortable with the physical aspect of it, he would accept that cause its not the be all and end all and if that was the only thing keeping us apart? like i was stunned. why would he say something like that?

2007-10-25 04:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

(35 YEARS OLD & UP) to Pay a Escort Call Girl for Sex than a Younger Guy (18 years Old - 25 years Old). I notice that when a Older Guy admits to paying for sex, the women seem to tolerate that more than a younger guy. Could you ladies PLEASE EXPLAIN WHY.

2007-10-25 04:17:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am his "girlfriend" or does he actually have to ask me to be? I am 36, but I have been in a relationship for 10 years, so I don't know what guys think now.

2007-10-25 04:16:25 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

We will have one group shot with 7 people. I would like to separate my sister, her husband, and her 12 yr old boy & 8 yr old girl from me, my husband and 6 yr old boy, but still look coordinated. Any ideas? My dad will be hanging it above his mantel all year long, so I'm trying to avoid Christmas themes!!!

2007-10-25 04:15:43 · 3 answers · asked by Marissa J 2 in Family

What would you make you think a woman is out of your league?

2007-10-25 04:15:27 · 15 answers · asked by 234567877543224578 3 in Singles & Dating

It's now 1:00 in the morning and my boyfriend never came home from work. I'm feeling all anxious because he's never done this before and we've been together for 7 years. What is he doing? He said he was going out for a drink after work, but usually he's home by 8pm when he does that. He's been very distant the last 2 or 3 weeks and I've talking to him about it but he's just shrugged it off. Should I be concerned? or am I overreacting? Any ideas on how I can get back to sleep without thinking about it.

2007-10-25 04:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by violet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you do mutual agreements when it involves children and something other then what the court order says but neither party wants to go to court, they want to deal with it outside the courts time. The Mom proposed something the dad agreed, will it hold up in court since they both agreed? Even if someone stops agreeing wont the judge see that they tried to do something else before coming to court?

2007-10-25 04:12:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think ive fallen in love with someone for the 1st time in my life but im not sure if its real love

2007-10-25 04:12:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my be in a rused bus..

2007-10-25 04:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are watching porn all the time or if you have done it for many years does it cause problems in your sex life? Examples: making you less affectionate, having trouble getting off, not wanting sex as often, lack of intimacy etc.....

2007-10-25 04:12:19 · 10 answers · asked by faith 5 in Marriage & Divorce