It's now 1:00 in the morning and my boyfriend never came home from work. I'm feeling all anxious because he's never done this before and we've been together for 7 years. What is he doing? He said he was going out for a drink after work, but usually he's home by 8pm when he does that. He's been very distant the last 2 or 3 weeks and I've talking to him about it but he's just shrugged it off. Should I be concerned? or am I overreacting? Any ideas on how I can get back to sleep without thinking about it.
2007-10-25 04:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by violet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when someone is being distant for weeks out of the blue something is going on. You do not deserve to have to deal with that feeling. Make him tell you what it is he is doing. He should not be going out for a drink after work without you anyway, men can put themselves in serious trouble when they do that. I understand you cannot get back to sleep, do you feel that he is slipping away from you? Whatever happens you have your whole life ahead of you and do not let anyone bring you down. Good luck.
2007-10-25 04:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's met a lady and is very intrigued by what he's found. He's out having drinks, and probably in his car with her right now... talking and possibly making out. Being distant is a great indicator of this, as well as late nights home. He will shrug it off, because it's a hard thing to talk about. Do you expect him to tell you he has feeling for another lady he has met? 7 yrs is a long time. He could be secretly seeing what else is out there, or too scared to break things off if that's his desire. I'd watch him for the next couple weeks. Don't keep bothering him about it, but do a little investigation. Note the times he leaves/ comes home, phone calls (check phone if possible), smell like a woman?, still being distant?, Internet use? excuses for possibly encounters with her?..... See if you can figure something out. Listen to your gut.
2007-10-25 06:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Shelber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if the realationship may be over. If hes acting different or maybe something at work is bothering him. Ive been where you are and its hard to sleep when the person you love is not home. The more you press the issue though unfortunatly the more he will be distant. Good luck
2007-10-25 04:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think about what might or might not be going on. I know easier said than done. He'll be home and then you can talk to him about where he's been. Let him know that you feel like he's been acting different. If there is a problem talk about it and figure out how to get through it. Whatever happens, good or bad, you will be ok!
2007-10-25 04:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh crap! I knew I forgot to do something when I left for work this a.m.. Honey, I'll go home at lunch and untie him. Sorry!
jk...most likely its ok...he may be at a titty flop or hanging out with friends.
If he isn't home or isn't at work by the morning then call the police and hospitals. But most likely he's either still partying with guys or sleeping it off some where.
2007-10-25 04:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-04 10:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be concerned. anytime there is a sudden change in the way a partner behaves, it's cause for concern. not to say that he's cheating on you or anything, but i'll bet you money that he comes home with some story about how he had too much to drink and stayed at a friend's house.
2007-10-25 04:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but just coming out of a similar situation... sounds like there is someone else. If he shrugs it off, it's because he doesn't want to talk about it. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news...
2007-10-25 04:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by jennyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be spending time with someone else and you don't know about it. If he shrugs you off, something is going on. I would demand of him to tell me what is going on. Or if not, threaten to leave. Don't be a stand in girl for him.
2007-10-25 04:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before jumping to conclusions about your relationship, worse things could have happened to him, like a car accident. Have you tried calling him if he has a cell phone?
2007-10-25 04:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋