Why do u look at porn as a form of cheating?? I can not understand this, plz explain! Your spouse is not physically touching another female, is it cuz they masturbate to it? Who cares men need to relieve themselves it doesn't mean they don't love u or they want to have sex w/ the girl in the book or video. Men are visual people, thats it! Tell me whats the difference between porn and what 1 can watch on t.v late at night (in my town its called skinamax) its a movie that comes on late at night on cineamax and basically they have sex... So tell me can your hubbys watch rated R movies or is that cheating to! I just don't understand why u get so mad!! In my opinion I think your just not secure in your marriage, PLZ prove me wrong if thats not the case.
2007-10-25 04:24:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my wife don't care... I'm just on here and always see the ladies talking sh*t about their men watching it... ulose- I'm so w/ u on that! ok u ladies are ok w/ the t.v form of porn so why not watch an actual porn w/ them? hmmmmmm
2007-10-25 04:37:07 · update #1
Ladies a screen is a screen sry NO difference between a comp and t.v its the same stuff sex, masturbating, etc how is it different.
2007-10-25 04:38:52 · update #2
hmmmm I'll brb w/ that answer!
I agree w/ u I don't look at it as cheating cuz its not... I believe that the women that do are vry insecure in their marriages and obviously don't trust their spouses which is wrong...If u have no trust u have no marriage!! So ur hubby jacks off to a magazine or video...big deal... get over it its totally a man thing...If its cuz the way these women look well do something about it and bring ur big butt to the gym!! Any1 can look like a porn star!
2007-10-25 04:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Personally myself and a few other female friends that I know don't view this as a form of cheating. It's only visual, done by the eyes no interaction with another. It doesn't upset me since I sometimes watch it myself. It is my husband that doesn't and I find it weird. He mentioned to me that when he was young he watched it because as an adolescent he was much "hornier" and most young men masturbate more, now there is no need since he is married and all the action he needs are being met by me.
Same goes for men who goes to strip clubs. I wouldn't mind either because it doesn't hurt me to see a woman strip. It's just looking no touching involved, no harm in that.
2007-10-25 04:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Flower 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in my 40's and I have to agree with your questioning. I would like to know what the problem is as well. I know my husband watches porn when I'm not around, I do too, and every woman has a toy in her drawer and if she says she doesn't she's lying!!!!!!! I certainly don't have a problem with him doing that, nor does he. When your in the mood your in it. That is not any form of cheating what so ever. I really think these girls are just that young immature ladies, or women who are insecure, with low self esteem, or just have a jealousy problem. Not sure, but my husband doesn't cheat on me he's just horny. So what
2007-10-25 04:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
to "Adrianna", not every woman has a toy in her drawer... good grief... anyway... I agree w/ Dawn and what it says in the Bible! you have heard that it is said "do not commit adultery" but I tell you anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart... this goes for women looking at men as well! porn is immoral... it degrades both men and women... and it's worse when you have it in the house and kids live there too! seems to me the computer has made porn more "common" but it is still not right to look at... it makes your significant other feel like crap or like they are enough... and yes, it's cheating when you are depriving your spouse of sexual pleasure and instead pleasuring yourself...! =(... dumped an ex fiancee' for this crap...
2007-10-25 04:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think women should rather have their husbands look at porn then other women. I do not know why anyone gets all upset over porn. Porn is not even real. I think if a women is upset with her mate for looking at porn then maybe she should join in and watch it with him. It may even help out their sex life.
2007-10-25 04:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My husband watches a lot of porn and it doesn't bother me! So no sweetheart not everyone looks at it like it's a form of cheating.... Heck I don't know honestly what he see's in all thoes videos that he watches but if they can do something that I can't do for him, then go ahead! I am secure in my marriage and I know he loves me and it does enhance some points in our sex life! Once in a while I'll tease him and take a peak! Heck we have funny with it! Truely it's a pleasure sometimes for him and I both! Ask your wife to open her mind frame and watch one with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-25 04:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i don't think that watching porn is cheating, but that's because i watch it myself and see nothing wrong with it. however, you cannot judge what cheating is in someone else's relationship. it comes down to respect. if it really bothers the wife, then the hubby should respect that. there are ways to relieve yourself without disrespecting your wife's wishes.
2007-10-25 04:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't care if my significant other looks at porn. Hell, I was the one suggesting good sites to him! lol
I think it's only the insecure people that have a problem with it. No offense.
2007-10-25 04:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kathryn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude u r so right on w/ this... however now the ladies will come on here saying "oh I dont care if he watches it" then when another ? posts on "why does my hubby blah blah blah" Then their on that ? saying "lose him, divorce, thats cheating"
Come on ladies make up ur damn minds!
2007-10-25 04:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by uloseallurmarbles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with porn at all! There's nothing wrong with looking and there's nothing wrong with masturbation. It's human nature!
2007-10-25 04:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by cherie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋