ok people. my male friend and i have previously admitted feelings for each other but first we were both involved with othrs so it never happened, then i pulled away from him because i heard he had been with a friend of ours and had triedto hide it from me.(at that stage we were thinking again about a relationship)the night i find out i say ok, thats your business we not in relationship.then he says he wants a relationship and if i am uncomfortable with the physical aspect of it, he would accept that cause its not the be all and end all and if that was the only thing keeping us apart? like i was stunned. why would he say something like that?
2007-10-25 04:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks everyone.sorry bout grammar.not the best at it,thanks for all your help
2007-10-25 23:04:44 · update #1
this question reads like gibberish. try using punctuation
what is the sentence in question? "its not the be all and end all and if that was the only thing keeping us apart?" I'm not sure if this is what you're referring to, but it sounds like he's saying there are more important things than sex in a relationship
2007-10-25 04:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was saying, for him, it is not just about the physical, and that he wants more from you, but I doubt that. I think that is a tactic he uses to get women in bed. He confuses them with romantic sounding terms that have the women thinking what was that? Was it good or bad? And while you are still pondering the question, he leans in for a kiss, and you think oh I guess it meant a good thing. While all along, he was just trying to get laid. If it was really not about the physical, then why would he not be satisfied with whatever you two have, and go be with another person, despite being in a relationship and talking to you at the same time?
2007-10-25 04:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 10:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i read that id say he trying to prove to you that he not just after a quickie like he had with your mate he wants more from you..
but im always suspicious he could be saying that so you will think better of him ..( which is what he wants) but once he's had it he might just do one.
hope that makes sense
2007-10-25 04:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by pet smudge (uk) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what exactly he said to you. You might try reading what you wrote and see if it makes sense to you.
2007-10-25 04:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im confused, because this is the marriage and divorce fourm, are either of you married? Or should you have posted this on the single fourm?
2007-10-25 04:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tankerwife 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him his friendship sucks, tell him he isn't Harry and tell him you aren't Sally either.
2007-10-25 05:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2007-10-25 04:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋