So last night at about 11 I was woken up by my fiance talking in his sleep. He said "How are you doing ladies?" then started making a bunch of kissy sounds but sat up in bed within moments for a minute or two then laid back down and was cuddled right up next to me for the rest of the night.
Perhaps I'm reading too much into this but could it be an indication of some deeper meaning or subconscience thoughts?
I asked him what he remembered dreaming about this morning but he didn't remember anything about girls only a dream about looking for something in the fridge...
I shouldn't worry though....right?
2007-10-25 04:53:06 · 17 answers · asked by JD 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Alright folks - for those of you who say I'm nuts, crazy or whatever I will tell you that I am not!!
The only reason I asked about it is because a few weeks ago he had a dream about me cheating on him and he woke up and started yelling at me about how if I should ever cheat on him he'll effin kill me so.....
If his dreams make him worry so much why shouldn't I be concerned when I hear him talking in his sleep??
I should have been more specific about the type of people I wanted to answer this question...
2007-10-25 05:27:32 · update #1
KJ - good point! lol
2007-10-25 05:28:06 · update #2
Leaving Traces... your answer is comforting - I knew someone out there would undestand me!
2007-10-25 05:29:08 · update #3
Thank you Rosie...
Nice to see some people can relate!
2007-10-25 05:46:36 · update #4
I have mixed feelings on this because once, my husband said a woman's name in his sleep, and when I asked him who "J" was, he said, " I know a lot of people with that name..." and pretty much dismissed it. I found out like 8 months later he DID have something going with "J". He'd lied to me. I remembered him saying her name in our bed too.
It could just be a dream. It might be something else.
But the fact that he didn't mention any particular names makes me feel a lot better about your situation. "Ladies" is pretty vague. Maybe he was dreaming about porn or something. LOL
2007-10-25 05:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have no reason to worry.
Dreams are often completely irrational and only loosely connected with the real world. It is possible that your fiance dream kissed some girls. It is possible that one day he may even dream cheat on you.
Of all the things to be worried about, what someone dreams is the least of them. There is no psychological evidence that just because someone dreams something it necessarily has any direct correlation to real life.
2007-10-25 04:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by ZCT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is funny, because my husband and i have had several talks about his "sleep talking". My husband doesn't talk the way yours does, but I feel that his is equally as disturbing.
When my husband talks in his sleep, it is aggressive in nature and at times pretty scary. Sometimes, I have to wake him up just to make sure that he wasn't being serious.
Since he is a pretty calm-natured person, I just blame is on built up aggression or something because of course he never has a clue that he even does it. He starts with violent outbursts like he's in a fight or something.
I think in your circumstance, maybe it just has to do with something sub-concious with sex in general. Does he ever want more sex from you? Or does he want to do different or new things sexually? Maybe that's all it is.
I always take dreams with a grain of salt and I always think that dreams are actually representation of somthing else.
So no, I don't think he's interested in other women.
Hope that helps.
2007-10-25 05:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, he could have been dreaming of a scene he saw on the telly 3 weeks ago!
Quit being sucked in to the pop psychology crap, dreams don't have to mean anything.
2007-10-25 05:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Karina. He can not help what he says when he is sleeping. Tiffany may have been a cashiers name at a store. You never know. And you dont want to jump the conclusion and make a mistake.
2016-05-25 20:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams ae nothing but - visualisation of our subconscious mind. he may b thinking of actually doing it in his subconscious mind and thats the reason he says this in his dream. But don't worry it does not necessarily mean he has don it .. but he might feel to do it
2007-10-25 05:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no control over his dreams, he probably doesn't remember them - and you certainly have no idea what they're about.
It's possible he was dreaming about meeting you and your mother for lunch and was kissing YOU because he was glad to see you. Maybe he was dreaming about seeing his mother and aunt and was kissing them on their cheek.
It literally could be anything - it doesn't mean anything at all.
2007-10-25 04:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should worry. It's a dream and unless you have questions while he was doing something while he was awake, I would just ignore it.
2007-10-25 05:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by GSUgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably dreamed he was Tom Jones doing a concert...don't worry! It was just a dream!
2007-10-25 05:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Muschi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry at all. i talk in my sleep and it's all very random. i never remember the dream it's related too either.
2007-10-25 05:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by buk84 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋