we have been seeing eachother a month and i am very confused as how to date because i was married for 3 years and im new to the game. obviosly i have to be patient and let things happen naturally i know. but i am working full time and go to a community college full time at night so my schedule is pretty full. so im making time for this guy and my concern is that i will get distracted and then my studied will fail and so on so forth.
so can i blatenly ask him if he will ever consider the thought or should i just **** with no feelings??
soooo confused please help! thanks
2007-10-25 04:49:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 month into a relationship isn't the time to be worried bout getn married to the guy and if you bring it up now he will most likely back way off. And no you shouldn't be given it up without feelings. Sex for women comes attached with feeling. Sex for men is just for the feeling so be carefull bout being to free with your feelings.
2007-10-25 04:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bow Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO ITS ONLY BEEN A MONTH YOU WILL SCARE THIS GUY-relax and go with the flow, how do you even know if you want to marry someone in a month
Your studies should come first you simply can not let yourself get distracted. Did it ever dawn on you that that's what he likes about you the fact that you you work and go to school. Guys find that sexy as hell. I am not saying not to be your feelings in it but I wouldn't exactly wear them on my shirtsleeve at this point either.
2007-10-25 04:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT bring up marriage because it is too early but it couldn't hurt to start figuring out if he has feelings for you. You should just be trying to figure out if he is sleeping with you or has feelings for you too. He probably doesn't even know if he does want to marry you or not because it is so early. Throw out some "feeler" questions and see how his emotions are, then go from there.
2007-10-25 04:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa......a month!!!!!! That is way way way way too soon to talk to any guy about marriage. If you want him to run real fast in the other direction before you even really get to know if he is worth your time, then by all means bring up the M word and throw in the word commitment too.
2007-10-25 04:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead with your life, too soon to be distracted, too soon to think in marriage and too soon to fail...
Think in your needs as a pro, you come from a divorce, is just too soon bcause this new guy to put in second places or behind your life...finish first your goals as individual..(highly recommended)
Have a nice day!...
2007-10-25 06:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by jackielafemme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooo! Not after one month.
**** ?
Anyway - it's just a chance you have to take. You can't blame anyone for losing focus on your studies. If you can't do both - you need to ditch the guy until you're done with school.
Good luck.
2007-10-25 04:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by ron9baseball 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's too soon to talk about marriage. You've only known him a month. You don't even know him well enough to marry him.
2007-10-25 04:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage after one month. He should "Run, Forest, Run" You are a very needy person to even think such a thing.
2007-10-25 04:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by New Nana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! A whole month already!! Give it another week at least!! Yep, you are confused!
2007-10-25 04:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a month no its not a good idea ,, he will run like forrest gump
2007-10-25 04:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by jgilbertdo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋