had relationships with heavy drinkers and drug users, it seems i cant find anyone who doesnt, do these people exist? and if so where do i find them!!??
2007-10-25 03:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by sharon you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't do any drugs, not even pot. and i only drink on the weekends.
here i am!!! :-D
2007-10-25 03:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by buk84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll probably find many people who don't indulge - in places like a church group, a community oriented organization, the library, or some activity or hobby youre interested in. If you're looking in bars and at parties or hoping a friend will hook you up then you're more likely to run into the ones you're NOT interested in.
Are you a drinker or drug user? If you are, then that's the main reason y ou keep falling for others with the habits, and if you aren't then i do not understand for the life of me where you're finding them all!
2007-10-25 03:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by sunonleaves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, these people exist. Sounds like you have a history of picking the drug abusers and drinkers, though. You might want to figure out why that is before you plow into another relationship.
I used to attract guys who treated me like crap, until I realised all my exes were the same. Then I took a break from dating to sort out my own issues, and once I did that, I broke the cycle.
Good luck!
2007-10-25 03:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to figure out why you seek these people out. You only hang with people of your choice, so get some self help first. Then as you improve your own self esteem, you will find places where non drug/alcohol users hang.
2007-10-25 03:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont lol, try changing the network of friends you go out with if they take drugs etc then you will fall in with someone that does, if its not your friends then maybe you should change the places you visit, keep on lookin there is someone out there who is perfect 4 u and will be everythin u want and more, not everyone in the world takes drugs and drinks loads, hope you find the right person soon xx
2007-10-25 03:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by kelz_jojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, we exist. The majority of the world does NOT drink heavily and do drugs.
Wherever you'be been meeting these winners, quit going there. Try the gym, library, church or place of worship, coffee shop, intro by a trusted friend rather than bars, clubs, and self-help meetings.
2007-10-25 03:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sugar Pie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
erm...i'd say that drinkers and drug users are in the minority by far!! most people i know are clean, regular ppl. just look around you, you probably encounter dozens of non-addicts per day. i have no idea where you got this idea from...
2007-10-25 03:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i have to say is that,you have to change yourself so that you attract people that are your type.the thing is, you MIGHT to be giving out so feeling a vibe that attracts them to you,that you don't know of. it must be something in your mind or something that happened to you and you cant or haven't moved on. what you have to do is that sit down and just analyzes you heart, your life and if your able to change you thought and your heart, you will see that you Will be attracting people that do not drink or smoke. its starts with you.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2007-10-25 03:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by babz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can find people who dont heavily drink of smoke.
dont hang around bikers.
2007-10-25 03:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by cerebralmike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah course they do...change the place where you hang out or find a new pub or something
2007-10-25 03:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by mals2008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋