I mean I sleep with them, but only because their wives don't. I think I am doing them both a favor. Anyway I am starting to have feelings for a married man and I feel really guilty. What should I do?
2007-10-25 02:58:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gosh I am not married what do I look like an idiot? Stevie I am sorry I can't help it. Please don't cut me off.
2007-10-25 03:09:22 · update #1
Of course not. Lust is a good thing.
Now, about the sleeping with him part. Lemme tell you, that is just about the kindest thing you could do for any man.
Do you have any idea how long it's been since I had a good nights' sleep? Between the snoring and the constant fight about how warm she wants the room and how I want it a normal temperature, I haven't had a good night sleep in years.
Then the thrashing around and the constant need for my body....well....I would welcome a woman that simply wanted to sleep with me.
2007-10-25 12:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Feelings are just gonna get in the way, keep up the good work! You are just the kinda person who us married women need around, it works out perfect, you can have these disgusting men, but I get the money and the house and all the other perks! Any man who cheats on his wife, deserves you, so Im all for it, but keep feelings out of the bedroom, as you will only add drama into your life, and keep in mind, you will never have this guy as you are exactly what he is to you and that is a sex object, you are nothing more then a blow up betty doll with a pulse to this married guy and many others, so remember. So my advise is simple, I think you should just stop sleeping with this one married guy that you have feelings for, but keep sleeping with the others. I know their are many women who are gonna come down onyou, but not me, because this is what happens when women dont take care of their men, their will always be someone like you who is gonna be thier to do their dirty work.
2007-10-25 03:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should'nt be sleeping with married men. Does it make you feel better about yourself? Ask you'r self this, Who does he go home to at night? It's not you. You should find yourself a single man rather then hurting people & possible yourself. Try and turn it around and think how you would feel if the man you thought loved you and promised to spend his life with was sleeping with another women. Not a very good feeling.
2007-10-25 03:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by appolonia_m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married.
Being the cheater isn't gonna be great because you might end up on TV being the bad guy or get shot in the face by the wife.
If you're feeling guilty about the feelings, obviously it's not right for you.
2007-10-25 03:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Roth Random 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it like this KARMA what goes around comes around and it is the truth. My soon to be ex husband had a gf and a few month old daughter when we first meet. I did not know it at the time when I started talking to him and once I found out I told him I did not want to break a family up. He siad he was unhappy and did not want to be with her and only was for the child. So he broke up with her. Well we got married and she always played the kid card and he cheated on me several times with her. Actually even left me for her and that day I found out I was pregant. He was not there for our son but 2 months out of 18 months. He just now is starting to care. But the point is he left her for me and then left me for her. He has cheated on me with others and now he is finally getting what he deserves. (Now that he realized everything he did wrong and is sorry) The fact is they are married and yes the guy is sleeping with you so what makes u think if you tell him you love him that he won't cheat on you? He already cheats on his wife so what makes you think he won't cheat on you? He know's you don't care he is married so he gets to keep his wife plus his gf on the side. I look at it like this I think how I felt when my husband left me and I hate to think that I made someone else feel the same way I did by breaking them up. But at the same time if he cheats on you then he never really loved you and was not worth it and you can do better. But I know I would not wanna be the reason I broke up a family who if maybe not happy at the time could be until you came along. And also like I siad once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. He will cheat on you also. Why even put yourself threw it. Don't lower urself aynmore. Find a SINGLE man and go from there.
2007-10-25 03:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by jennie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
now, you know what the answer is. You only came on here to hear someone say its ok. its not. & your not doing them a favor. You're breaking up a family. How would u have felt as a child if someone women just came in and stole ur dad. think about that.
2007-10-25 03:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by -----------n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if they are sleeping with the wife or not.
You aren't their.
Any man will tell you what they think you want to here to get what they want.
The only reason they sleep with you is cause they know that you are easy, & they don't have to be honest with the wife, they can lie to her, cheat, ect... & you are helping them do that.
You are helping destroy a marriage now that is said, what are you going to do to stop it.
How would you like it if you had a husband & he cheated on you.?
2007-10-25 03:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, go on. But stop sleeping with the guy you have feelings for, its not worh it.
If the sex is good, or the chemistry is great just go for it. As far as the wife is concerned, its bound to happen if you dont take care of your husband.
Have sex, dont get emotionally involved. It'll be fun. To hell with Karma. Maybe this is the payment the wife is getting for her bad karma of the previous birth!!
2007-10-25 03:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Raashmi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not charge for it? It's the same thing, and NO you are not doing their wives any favors, I am sure they don't want your STD (the gift that keeps giving). You know your a whore and post a question like this actually thinking you could possibly get sympathy? Please....
2007-10-25 03:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with lusting after a married man, however now that you are getting feelings for him, tell him if he wants to fill up the "toy box" he is going to have to pay to do so. Start treating him like your husband, and he'll dump you to find another skank.
2007-10-25 03:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by buddyj68 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋