Try to make a long story short. I've been dating a guy for just two weeks, but he is VERY into me and yes, we have been intimate once. My ex boyfriend and I had broken up a few weeks ago and I did tell the new guy about him. The ex boyfriend and I have reconsiled and are seeing each other again. I don't feel comfortable telling him that. How can I break things off with him without hurting his feelings? I am completely in love with my ex boyfriend who is again my boyfriend and even though the new guy was very nice and fun to hang out with, I can't imagine being with anyone else and need to break things off but I know he's going to be upset and hurt because he was already talking about a future with me. How can I do this? Do I have to do it in person?
2007-10-25 03:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by funone0928 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm almost 30 years old....I'm not immature thank you and I didn't ask for opinions on the fact that I slept with someone after dating him for 2 weeks. We have known each other for months. The idea of "Answers" is to answer questions people actually ask...not judge them.
2007-10-25 03:53:00 · update #1
You sound too immature to be intimate with anyone.
You slept with a guy you've dated for less than two weeks?
You loved someone else, yet still slept with the new guy?
Are you trying to get a bad reputation?
To answer your question: You tell him, sorry I'm breaking up with you. Thanks for a nice time.
2007-10-25 03:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is really important that you first and foremost be honest. Anytime you breakup with someone it is going to be difficult ,and their feelings will be hurt. However, it is only fair that you discontinue this relationship and also let the new guy know that it wasn't anything that he did .....if he was a total gentlemen let him know that. Be straight forward don't beat around the bush.Let him know that you and your ex decided to go another round and have been seeing either other. You must prepare yourself to accept that the new guy is going to be upset and he might even feel betrayed in some way or form . For the simple fact that you haven't been honest with him. In addition, he might even feel that he has wasted valuable time with you that he could of been with someone else ....... As far as how do break up with him you owe it to him to tell him in person. It is so cowardly to breakup with a person without giving them a reason or by phone. You said that he is very nice and you liked hanging out with him .....so telling him in person is the least you can do . Remember that the outcome can be positive and negative , but you don't want to burn bridges you never know when you might need his help. If you break up with him in person and be honest by telling him why.....it will say alot about your character and the kind of person you truly are.
2007-10-25 03:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by kekoa 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to do it in person - unless you want to completely destroy the poor guy. :/ Just tell him maturely and calmly that you'd rather be his FRIEND than his girlfriend, and be sure to NOT bring your new boyfriend into it, because that'll only make it worse for him. Good luck!
2007-10-25 03:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree simply tell him how you feel
2007-10-25 03:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss a girl in front of him
2007-10-25 03:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be strait up with him
2007-10-25 03:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋