All right, this guy I totaly like at the moment just informed me that he was ingaged. Which is odd for me cause he's only what 17 and he already tried to get married with a girl. The only reason they arn't gfetting married is she cheated. I'm not sure if I should interfear with what might happen with them. I'm really confused and i would love some help.
2007-10-25 05:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by xX~PiE~Xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it!! It obviously isn't going to last, and I speak from experience. Not me personally, but a friend of mine. He got engaged to this girl like right after they finished high school, and about five months later, it was all over. She cheated on him. Last time I talked to him, he was dating someone else. So go for it. Don't let this opportunity pass you by. Be there for him when he needs you and see where things go.
2007-10-25 15:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would! That is NOT gonna last, their relationship. He tells you he's going to marry her, and he turns it around and says he won't because she cheated...? Oook, well what is it, are you gonna marry her or not? Doesnt sound like it. I'd tell him some straight facts that he is in PUPPY LOVE, not ready to be engaged to that girl for the rest of their lives, and if he is, then you say, "well i'll be a monkey's uncle.". lol. I dont think it will work out between them.
2007-10-25 05:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mixed up in it. This guy clearly has issues, if he's not only staying with a cheater but is considering marrying her, and he needs to work that out on his own.
Focus your attentions elsewhere, and keep this guy in your "later" pile - if he marries her, then he's off the market; if he dumps her, then you can re-open the case and pursue him again. But don't waste your time hanging around a guy who is committed elsewhere.
2007-10-25 05:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah ,, 2 perspective comes into existence ... one is if he is ur frnd !!! at least even if ur in talking terms ,,,, just maintain the frndship ,have a chat ,, he might be needing support due to the incident ......and thts quite humanly of all of us to help someone in need !!!!! but let him speak out .. the issue abt his girl ... 2 alternative is just lettin him handle his own affairs .... but tell me isnt tht bad ...bcoz there is something defenitly good abt this guy ,,thts y ur interested .....think upon this !!!!! read suggestions from all the ppl , not just me and make ur final move !!!! let a true frndship be restored ...alls well tht ends wellll ..cya
2007-10-25 07:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by trilok p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go For It!! Make it messier than it already is!!
2007-10-25 05:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋