I have a few close girl friends but most of my friends are guys. And its alot of drama ALOT! That on the real i keep out of cuz in this drama my guy friends and girl friends have dated and it has always ened wrong, And they brake up and i always get put in the middle. Well to make a long story straight my supposed girls are talkin mad crap about me cuz im still friends ith there ex boyfriends and we hang out more then i do with them. See i known my boys longer then the females and now there just sayin im ****** up that i shouldnt turn my back on my girls lalala you know im just look the drama you guys have is between you guys not me.. and the realtionship i have with either has nothing to do with the other, The point is my homeboys have been good to me and they show me love but my girls there pure drama, how do i make them see where not in high school and to grow up?? cuz seriously there gonna say something stupid to me and im gonna ended up beating there ***..and i dont want 2 dothat! see they are the type of females that hold grudges and will do anything to screw you over, and i see that and i dont talk to them as much there evil .. what do i do ?? do i confrot them and see what happens? or should i kick it with my home boys more to tick them off? or should i whatever it i know its imature to go to there level but ****!! its hard not to . or should get even with them for makin my homeboys lifes impossible that live to they mess with them and always find a way to screw them over in whatever they do??
2007-10-25 05:51:25 · 2 answers · asked by bashfulmexicana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am im 20 ,,, but the girls act like there in high school and there older then me
2007-10-25 06:00:03 · update #1
Well for one, their not your "homgirlz" thats just some term your making up to discribe them, the truth behind the term in thugish slang goes deeper then those girls know how to go. So you have NOTHING TO SALVAGE WITH THEM! There was no "friendship" because nothing about that behavior EVEN sujest you guys were ever friends. Just because you tolerate each other doesn't make you friends. That aside, your "homboyz" there, which they actually "seem" to be, show more compassion for you, so hence you have a DEEPER relationship with them. Just count ties with them, you said it yourself, your not in highschool any more and move on. They confront you on that, and tell them the truth, you don't feel they ever were your friends becuase there so damn emotionally immature that they pick boys over you, which is what their doing...... funny how even you doing what your doing, isn't but thats the truth of it.....
2007-10-25 06:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, but when you write that you're not in high school, I was thinking more like middlel school! Grow up, girlfriend.
2007-10-25 05:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋