ok so humm...i had a friend of mine, we had a huge falling out, we were interested in each other but the distance would allow us to be together so at the end we remained friends. he had a gf which i was totally happy about but then he started ignoring me to the point where he blamed me for us having tension in our friendship and at the end we stopped talking. i went on his profile and i saw that he was single...we still live in the same areas, so the distance is still a problem, but i just wanted to email him just saying hi...i really want us to be friends again. so will it be bad if i jsut say hi to him??? advice anyone?? lol....also thing is i dont know if he's really single, he plays with his status all the time....
2007-10-25 04:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What's u'r goal ... do u want this person to be in u'r life??? If so ... then what's the role u want 'em to be in???
Sounds as if u wanna have him in the role of romance ... if so, you're in a "Midnights summer dream" (Shakespear) where u'r chasing 'em ... but he's not chasing u.
I think a positive relationship is where u both are longing to be together and no one's running ... I'd say up u'r standards so that u get the luv ment 4u.
2007-10-25 07:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who is playing with your mind??? Don't look for a boyfriend, pray for a husband instead and God will bring him into your life.
"Who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing", here God tells you that the husband is supposed to find the wife. You don't even need to worry about it. Pray for a husband that God has chosen for you, and then you concentrate on Jesus and before you know it, he will be in your life.
What you are explaining is fleshly thinking and it only leads to disaster. Listen to what the Word says and you cannot go wrong.
2007-10-25 04:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok. just send a friendly email anf show that you are sincere in wanting to be friends again!:) what doesnt kill you makes you stronger right? if he refuses to reply or simply ignores you, then what is the point of having a frind who does not value the friendship? it doesnt really matter if he's single or not, cause whether he's single or not, he has to have more than just ONE FRIEND right?:)
2007-10-25 04:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by ineedhelp! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea u can email him and say hi nothing harmful. So u jus dont tel him how u feel shouldnt let a friendship go that easy
2007-10-25 04:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Shantell C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email letting him know that u want to reach out & try to fix the situation. Hopefully he will answer u back. I wish u the best of luck.
2007-10-25 04:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Scooter_loves_his_dad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with breaking the ice and saying hello. Dont say to much, see if he responds and then go from there.. Nothing wrong with just saying hello... If he is a good friend thn he will answer and be cool with things...
2007-10-25 04:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by carmelskinnedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. If you want to email him and say hey whats up? or hi thats fine
2007-10-25 04:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by katie_la_flaka<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.....what was the falling out over? Think about it before you read too much in to it one way or the other. Maybe he isn't single...
2007-10-25 08:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong in saying hai to him
2007-10-25 04:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋