what are some things that men like sexually???? this is why i am asking okay i was in a long term relation ship for about 8 years( we knew eachothers likes and dislikes ) and we have sence split up and i am now currently with someone new personally i am very open sexually if i like something or want something done i will let you know and if i dont i will let you know and i asked my new bf to tell me his likes and dislikes so that i can better please him as well because nomatter what people say sex may not be everthing but it is a major part of a relationship however he is very shy so i am looking for some new things that i can try that men enjoy that he might like sence he is to shy to say thanks in advance for your advise
2007-10-25 04:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by @!#$%^ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for youe comments you guys !!and dont appologize for you answers thats what i need blunt honesty if thats what works for you then great i mean hey everthing is worth a try
2007-10-25 04:13:56 · update #1
to janicaja i did ask him and hes to shy which is why i am asking for advise and no its not against the terms me posting this question i am no being explicit i am simply asking for advise i understand that you may be to imature to understand that concept not only that but i asked this question to men wich you are not so i dont know why you even answered you should really grow up a bit
2007-10-25 05:25:03 · update #2
1) Create a "Shy Free Zone" - an area where he can relax and open up and talk to you about sex. It can be at your house, his house, in a park, anywhere...as long as you two are in a private setting.
2) Ask if he is into the kinkier side of sex: Bondage, S&M, Frottage...or even sex with food.
3) Ask him if he in into fantasies and role-playing.
Fantasies are the best way to keep a relationship fresh and exciting.
4) Play tease and start/stop games. My wife and I do this all the time. She would lay me on the bed, twist my nipples and stroke my penis until I'm begging for her...then she would get up and leave me hanging...sometimes for hours. It would lead to great, ROUGH sex afterwards.
5) Go down on him often. ALL men love it. Period.
Do it just because...and while you do it...look at him and let him...see you...enjoy...doing that...to...him... He'll love it.
And one final point...all men want a woman that acts like she is very happy to be with him. BE EXCITED EVERYTIME you are with him sexually.
That alone will get him excited too...which will lead to PASSION.
When both of you are excited, you will have the best sex. Period.
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2016-10-22 23:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll depend totally on him - but since he's shy, you'll need to bring it up slowly. It's possible he doesn't have a lot of experience and doesn't know what he wants, or that he's afraid of you thinking he's a pervert, or that he's simply satisfied with what you two are doing now.
Try buying a magazine like Cosmo - they always have articles or lists for sex - and reading an article together, looking for things that turn you on. It'd probably be easier for him to say yes or no than to bring up a fantasy.
2007-10-25 04:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a girl that doesn't hold back in bed. Isn't afraid to have the lights on and doesnt ask if what she's doing is as good as someone else has done. Basically get freaky girl
2007-10-25 04:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Chris S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ask your boyfriend and follow his advice. Strangers on the internet can't help you, plus it's against yahoo's terms of service to even answer this question.
2007-10-25 04:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him to relax and then go to work on him in every way you know how,, i guarantee you he will respond no matter how shy he is...
2007-10-25 04:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is just temporal... sex is superficial... if that is the only thing you think that would please him...
eventually if you dont plant your ground when you grow fat he wont like you anymore...
make that person comfortable with you by making that person part of your life... not just a sex blah...
2007-10-25 04:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by rich_iz_here 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like it when they are aggressive and talk realy dirty to me
2007-10-25 09:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by c j 10" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give hime head with ice in your mouth...lol..fells amazing
2007-10-25 04:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by MR. I KNOW EVERYTHING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-10-25 04:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋