Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

Ok. I have an engagement ring and to describe it is white gold a carat round diamond in the middle with 6 diamonds on both sides channeled. The bands we looked at are one is a half carat channeled diamond white gold band. We want two on both sides of the engagement ring, but I feel it takes off from my center stone. What do you think? Go smaller? Only one band not 2?

2007-10-21 05:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by ask alotta ?s..lol 1 in Weddings

the 4 people in my house right now say:

racoon- people are scared and leave them alone at night

dog- would like to be loved as much as dogs are

eagle- wants to fly and be the biggest treasured bird

jackrabbit- fast, cute and all they do is multiply

2007-10-21 05:58:33 · 16 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before I even explain anything, please do not accuse me of being jealous. I have no reason whatsoever to be jealous of my mother inlaw. We actually get along really well, but there are some things that bug me.

1) Whenever we go to their house to visit (which is an hour away) my husband has to call her the minute we get into our house to let her know we made it. Every single time. If he doesn't she calls him and gets upset because he didn't call. But he makes it a point to keep her in the loop.

2) Whenever we go somewhere, say out to eat or we go to a movie and it's late, he will call her as soon as we get out the movie or as soon as we get home to tell her we made it and that we're in the for the night. He'll actually say "Well we made it home and we're in the for the night and we're in the bed.".

2007-10-21 05:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i found out the reason this girl stopped talking to me..damn was i dumb for saying this. we were talking on the phone n she was listening to a song and said "aww this song makes me not want to be single n e more". and i said "dont listening to it." then like the next day completely stopped talking to me for good, i didnt really mean to say it, it kind of just came out but i wasnt really serious about it. i really liked her n she liked me, i know i shouldve said something else. ive been single for 2 years so i guess i wasnt really equiped for saying the right thing cuz im used to joking and being an asshole with my cousin on the phone.so i guess that smart *** comment slipped out. ladies would you stop talking to a guy u just met and he said that to u? is that where i went wrong?

2007-10-21 05:54:09 · 30 answers · asked by It's My Turn 4 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering what S&M (as in sex with whips and stuff) stands for? What is the S and what is the M?

2007-10-21 05:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is a wonderful man and we have had a brilliant relationship for over five years, but I have a crush on a collegue. He likes me too but is also in a relationship. I don't know if it's just jitters or if I'm with the wrong man.

2007-10-21 05:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Weddings

ok i'm now engaged to her ex husband and we live together. he has a 4 yr old daughter and she's totally untrained. i have opened my house up to the mother to see where her daughter is spending 3 days a week with us. my dead line is now 10/31/07 after that she's not welcome. i'm sick of her game playing. she won't drop the child off at the house. it's all out of spite. i feel this will put a real toll on our relationship. i feel it now.

2007-10-21 05:50:51 · 25 answers · asked by msjchill38 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I am 15 and I am talking about EMA and my future salary for my future employment and my parents are saying that that belongs to them. For bringing me up and buying me clothes and feeding me etc. What should I do. They are not joking they are serious and a little aggressive about it.

2007-10-21 05:50:47 · 35 answers · asked by The Wonderful Me 4 in Family

2007-10-21 05:48:42 · 12 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Singles & Dating

im married man now yet i still love my ex, what will i do?

2007-10-21 05:47:56 · 8 answers · asked by Sunday B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a man is 30 years old and is dating a woman, is this an age normally when a man is looking for stability and wanting to settle down?

2007-10-21 05:46:42 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

On a whim, I asked my wife about whether or not she had been with larger men in the past, and she said no. But then one night when we were out (drinking) with some friends of hers from college, somehow the topic of penises came up, and one of her friends blurted out that she figured I must have a large penis "because Susan married me" (not her real name).

Well, I don't have a large penis (I'm average) but this certainly got me thinking. So I asked my wife and she admitted that a long-term boyfriend in college had a big penis (nine inches) and that she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, and she said it wasn't all that anyway. So, again, all good. However, the next time I saw the friend who spilled the beans I asked her what she meant, she said that Susan had a few "large" boyfriends in college. So I asked Susan, and apparently another boyfriend was also large, she said eight inches or so.

Isn't this an unusual coincidence if she really isn't into that?

2007-10-21 05:44:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy a couple weeks ago and we have been talking since,I have gone out with him three times now.Twice we ended up sleeping together,nothing more than coudeling,for i was hurt really bad in my last relationship and it has been a long time since i have been with someone else.I think Im starting to really like this guy,and he seems so respectful,never tries to push me for more,he just holds me.Could this build to something more?Or does it seem like it may only be physical? Is it not normal to start a relationship off like this?(hopping in bed together too soon??even though there was no sex)

2007-10-21 05:38:35 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 05:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by blueyzfrider 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted something different and I thought there was NO WAY I could afford diamonds but to my dismay--I CAN! wOOt! I thought the square shaped diamonds were unique too. :)

http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-Mens-Diamond-Rings-Wedding-Bands-Gold-Jewelry-NR_W0QQitemZ110183082675QQihZ001QQcategoryZ45383QQtcZphotoQQcmdZViewItem

2007-10-21 05:34:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How is the best way to go about setting up a famous singer to sing at a wedding? I know it can be done, but I'm not sure how. Thanks.

2007-10-21 05:33:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok you have to choose between the guy you truely love deeply or the guy you have wanting to be with forever? You care about them both very much, but you have to choose one. So who would you choose?
For me I chose the guy I truely love deeply but now I don't know if I chose the right guy! I want to be with them both to see which one I should choose but I dont know if they would I agree. Any advice?
Thanks in advance!

2007-10-21 05:31:26 · 41 answers · asked by I love him! :) 3 in Singles & Dating

He said it was because the old mattress hurt his back.But he still ends up on the sofa most nites. I should say he works until 11pm and gets home around midnite. He has lots of excuses. Too tired to shower. Too tired to get up after watching tv for awhile. Says I am hogging the bed so he does not want to bother me to crawl in. What do you think. Only married 2 years.

2007-10-21 05:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by Aloha_Ann 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm finding it's a good idea to do a monthly Wedding budget (based extra on money AFTER your major bills). What did you do? Gosh looking at this spreadsheet am I ever going to be POOR for a while....Well until 5/3/08 that is!

2007-10-21 05:29:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

everything was good till this last 1/2 year. I had problems dealing w work, family, health. she had some too. It seemed like I just smuttherd her too much by always doing too much for her. I became insecure and always had to call her all the time, tex, email, know what she was doing ect. However this was not unpurpose, i just really loved her. Over the summer we had a couple 1 week breaks. Last month she told me she think we still needed time apart.I got really upset and emotially and just left. we were both crying.Since then I got really insecure and kept calling, texing, jut pushing her away.she has said she just wasnt happy, but then she says he needs time.Anyways this last week I realied alot of things and want to be calm and laidback like i always was.i got a new really good job that I am happy. Iam like i used 2 be.She has aggred 2 meet4 lunch tom. I knowshe expects me to be a begger. what can i do to make her think twice?I am a really nice guy and have done everythng 4her.

2007-10-21 05:27:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday i went to a halloween party (girl-boy) and we were watching disturbia. and in the "woman" scenes, the boys were all making perverted noises. it was really weird and akward. should i just let it go and laugh about it or set 'em strait???! HELP!

2007-10-21 05:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its like whatever he pretty much ask me to do i do it know matter what it is ,but its like he does not do the some thing for me in turn. I do things for him outer the kindness of my heart, beacuse i love him very much , but he does not do the some thing in turn. should i keep on doing things for him?

2007-10-21 05:26:07 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 05:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We don't really talk anymore! Don't get me wrong, we DO get on, but the good times are getting few and far between!
She's always getting messages on her cell phone, which she says are from family members, but sometimes she reads the messages out loud, and other times she doesn't!!
As for sex... we barely manage it once a week, and then it's pretty poor at best.. no kissing, no foreplay.. nothing!!

I don't mean to moan behind her back, I just REALLY wanna know what I should do?!?!

2007-10-21 05:25:08 · 40 answers · asked by Barry D. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to clean their mess up when they come over for football on Sundays and they leave drink cans and chips on the floor and if they spill something they just wipe it up with a napkin and the furniture is still stained or the floor is sticky. My husband doesn't want to say anything b/c they are his friends but he doesn't understand how much cleaning up I do. I figure since I make all the snacks and meals for them atleast they could be less messy, you know?

2007-10-21 05:21:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm his first gf, so he might not have a lot of experience of how to be a good bf. But It's been forever since he called me, the last tie he called was in August and it was on my b-day. But He hasn't asked me out on a date since June. That was our first date, and we've never had a second one. I know, I'm his first gf, but I just keep have this feeling that I should break up with him, because he isn't meeting my needs. What should I do, should I wait a little longer and tell im what he's doing wrong, or should I just break up with him next week??

2007-10-21 05:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by Mystify 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 05:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay, me and this guy have had sex about twice now and i was a virgin before we had sex. We arent dating, but we are attracted to each other. I have commitment issues first of all, and once, i brought up the fact that we arent dating but having sex and he asked me if i wanted to date and i said no. But now i feel like i shouldn't really be sleeping with him if we arent at least committed in a relationship. I think he likes me because he tries to respect my wishes. I told him i need to be appreciated after sex so he holds me close and strokes my hair afterwards. Does that show he cares about me? because the first time he just wanted to go to sleep afterwards and i gave him hell about it so he changed the second time. He told me that he cares about me alot but i just dont believe him and i think he is talking to other girls. How can i make him committed to me, do you think he only wants sex from me? should i stop having sex with him until he commits to a relationship? thanks

2007-10-21 05:13:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 05:09:18 · 45 answers · asked by Page 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am asking this because at the last job I worked at, there was one employee who had no concept of interpersonal boundaries. It was quite obvious that he was the touchy-feely flirtatious type. I tolerated his ways for a few months and then slowly got into avoidance mode until he got the picture and left me alone. He still acted the same way though toward other women in the workplace through his words such as using the term "baby" and touchy-feely personality. Another coworker actually called him a pervert to me in confidence. Could I have filed a sexual harassment complaint against him for this kind of behavior? I tend to be too nice and just use the avoidance approach to deal with these kinds of people on the job.

2007-10-21 05:07:37 · 2 answers · asked by GilmoreGirls1 3 in Singles & Dating