On a whim, I asked my wife about whether or not she had been with larger men in the past, and she said no. But then one night when we were out (drinking) with some friends of hers from college, somehow the topic of penises came up, and one of her friends blurted out that she figured I must have a large penis "because Susan married me" (not her real name).
Well, I don't have a large penis (I'm average) but this certainly got me thinking. So I asked my wife and she admitted that a long-term boyfriend in college had a big penis (nine inches) and that she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, and she said it wasn't all that anyway. So, again, all good. However, the next time I saw the friend who spilled the beans I asked her what she meant, she said that Susan had a few "large" boyfriends in college. So I asked Susan, and apparently another boyfriend was also large, she said eight inches or so.
Isn't this an unusual coincidence if she really isn't into that?
2007-10-21
05:44:00
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Why are you borrowing trouble? No matter her answer you will feel bad or inferior or something. Obviously it does not matter to your wife so let it go!
2007-10-21 05:50:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Contrary to what you men think, we women do not care about the size of a man's penis. We, in fact, like average size penises. We don't discuss other sizes we've had simply because it only bothers you guys. We are sensitive to your delicate little egos and insecurities.
I have not had sex with a guy because hard it was too small and I have broken up with a guy because it was too large, though I never told them the real reason why.
2007-10-21 06:13:58
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answered by gypsy g 7
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I personally think you are reading too much into this. If your wife was truly that shallow saying her man had to have a large penis, she would not have married you. Sure it may have been a different experience in college, but she did not marry you for your size, so don't worry :)
2007-10-21 05:51:06
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answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5
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Apparently, you think the size of a penis defines a man.
How wrong you are or your wife would have married another.
Get a clue, and quit with the dick-obsession.
2007-10-21 05:57:07
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answered by outtahere2day 5
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Don't get yourself worked over that issue. If she really cared about size she would have a man thats large. Evidently it means nothing to her because she married you. Think also , if size meant anything to her she would dumped you after the first encounter sexually. Don't read into it, girl talk and they shouldn't have been talking about it in front of you anyway.
2007-10-21 06:06:34
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answered by Thunder 2
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College is college and she married you. Back to the confidence thing, get some and keep it. Do not bring up the issue ever again. She married you and you rock her world in your way, that is why she married you. .
Quick way to get disrespected for good would be to continue this non-sense and especially involve her friends. Let it go and be confident and cocky, you'll get more. Stop trying to compare.
2007-10-21 05:53:27
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answered by joecool 3
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there is no need to go trying to start trouble, like she said those were her "College Days" of her liking big penis'. she's married to you now and she likes and loves you for more than what the size of your penis is. So it shouldn't matter.
2007-10-21 06:31:22
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answered by princesssade87 3
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well I'm sure she didn't want to make you feel inadequate and that's why she didn't say anything. but you dont ask a guy what size he is before you date him so its not like she knew if they were big or not when she started seeing them it just turned out that way . if your sex life is good and she has orgasms there shouldn't be anything to worry about.... besides if you dont know how to use it it doesn't matter what size you are
2007-10-21 06:37:18
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answered by just me 4
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dont worry about it at all!
she doesnt check out there penis's before she goes out with them does she?
she doesnt care how big you are -
she loves you,
she got married too YOU.
all that means more then '9inches and eight inches'
its a dick, it doesnt mean everything does it?
just enjoy what you's too have.
and stop worrying about her ex-bf's penis.
2007-10-21 05:57:58
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answered by Anonymous
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She would not have married you, if you were not adequate in size. Besides if she does want something larger for a night, that is what they have toy stores for.
2007-10-21 05:50:49
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answered by Yvette N 1
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