Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

i'm currently in a custody battle with my (ex) husband. He makes more money than i do, lives in a nicer area, and i'm on anti-depressents for bipolar disorder. but i love my kids more than anything in the world and i CANNOT stand for seeing them every wednesday and every other weekend. How do i get majority custody? i'm so scared. i can't lose my babies.

2007-10-21 05:07:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a junior in college and I never go out. I have the same friends from high school and we are slowly growing apart. I have met aquaintances but no friends while in college. I have also not dated anyone since high school. All the good guys seem to be taken. I long to meet someone because I think I am driving my family crazy because I always confide in them and I refuse to confide in my friends. A few days ago in one of my classes, we were taking about dating guys. (its a womens health class...) Most of the girls were shocked when they learned that I have never said I love you to a guy before. Is that so wrong??? I never go out or meet people because I seem to have to study a million times more than anyone else. School has never been easy for me. I dont deserve to go out, especially this semester since I am failing. What should I do???

2007-10-21 05:07:02 · 12 answers · asked by that one girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this Boy have decided to be friends because of the distance..he lives in a different (city) but we like each other ALOTT... yeah i wanna be his friend but every time i talk to him i feel upset because we carnt be more then friends in my heart i wanna be more then friends and i like him alot...how do u reckon he feels about the hole thing..... i was just woundering if anyone could give me any tips on how to be a good friend to him..?... Thank u xxx

2007-10-21 05:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with one of my best male friends (in his 20s). After weeks of agony, we finally had 'the talk', wherein he explained that he doesn't want a girlfriend for at least a year, if not several, based on his bad experience with his last gf. They broke up a YEAR ago and he says he's just now realising he is no longer in love with her. He wants to see the world, have adventures, etc. He is constantly telling me how great I am in superlative terms; he is physically affectionate (arms around me, etc). I am wondering if when he says he wants 'adventures' it means he is not sure about his sexuality. I know I sound vain for suspecting his gayness based on his unwillingness to make a pass at me. But I do have a history of being a faghag and being a magnet for gay men (which is great except when I'm in love with him). What's going on? (1) he is really through with dating (this sounds implausible) (2) he is 'just not that into me' (3) he is confused sexually (he says not)

2007-10-21 05:06:28 · 4 answers · asked by beatrice 2 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed over the years my husband semes to resent my son. He is 13 years old. My husband and I have a son together and he shows favortism to his son rather than my son. Just recently he and my son exchanged words now it semes that my husband is angry at me, we havent spoken since this happened. Im not sure as to what to do. I am afraid this will break us up and in the back of my mind I know this will get much worse before it gets better. As my son gets older he will start resenting me for not sticking up for him...! please help. I dont know what I should do.

2007-10-21 05:05:35 · 25 answers · asked by laura r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious people only...
I love my boyfriend ( with all my heart)... but I cheated on him.

He went away for a year and while he was gone I cheated on him (once & once only). After I did it I knew I was wrong. I already told him and we talked and cried about it and all the emotional stuff. Some things where even admitted on his side. Now our relationship is better then it has ever been. Crazy but true. We talk about everything well... Almost everthing...

Here's the problem... the sex is not the same. this is hard to admit... but it's not like it used to be ( like before i sleeped with the other guy). He seems to not noticed any difference, but i do...It doesn't feel as GREAT as it used to. I am NOT very experinced in the sex department except for with him and this other. We have even tried new moves and positions.

Basically, will our sex life go back to the way it used to be and how do i get it there.

It dosen't really matter, but ... in a way... it does matter

2007-10-21 05:04:49 · 13 answers · asked by *~*Lady_bug*~$ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my wife for 3 years. And the past 4 months we have been having problems. It all started out like this.

We seemed very happy, we had very few problems. But I had to go on an extended business trip and could not take my wife with me. So I had my wife go to her parents house because we were planning on relocating and I had to find a place first.

When I was gone my wife started saying things like "you just shipped me out here because you want to divorce me." etc etc.... my wife for some reason got the idea in her head that I was abandoning her, which was FARTHEST from the truth. Realizing there was problems, I quit my new job opportunity and packed my bags and drove all the way across country to try and fix our marriage.

2007-10-21 04:59:46 · 14 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well, this friend of mine shes married, really love her hubby but there's a time that she fells inloved with someone... you think my friend is a bad person? is it really wrong to fall inlove with two person?

2007-10-21 04:58:09 · 3 answers · asked by PiE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 19 years old. I have a very big problem. My penis is 12 inches when erect. Most guys would dream of having such a penis but it only trouble. Every time i have sex with a girl i hurt them. On some occasions i actually cant insert it into the vagina at all. The last girl i slept with actually cried. Because of this problem i have never actually reached orgasm during sex because i always have to stop because the girl finds it too painful. What should i do? i cant spend all my life not having proper sex. Have any girls had this problem with a guy before and how did you overcome it? I appreciate any advice.....

2007-10-21 04:56:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 04:56:18 · 9 answers · asked by Lexi K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay. i was hanging out yesterday with this boy i like. and he likes me too. but were not going out. anyway. i really like him. and he wanted to make out. but i have never made out before so i just told him right now wasnt a good time. well i think he thinks i dotn really like him. thats not it. i really do like him. so im nervouse bc i have never made out before. so i dont know what to do. i feel really bad right now and i dont know why.
do you think i should just kiss him and it will come natrually or should i tell him i have never made out before. i really need help. please.

2007-10-21 04:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by Kimberly R 1 in Singles & Dating

Rivers Run One Way"


Do you ever wonder why rivers run one way,
have you sat in silence, a special place you stay.
Many thoughts abound, yet spoken words not heard,
Alone or lonely, a choice we make, how it seems absurd.

Thinking of the past, seeing success and failure too,
sitting close to GOD, is what I vigilantly must do.

Winds of change appear, yet rarely do we see,
the forest through the trees, as winds lift you and me.
This chatter that I hear,, makes my stomach turn,
living everyday for him,, a new love that I must earn.
Look,, there's GOD,, In the wind, the birds, the wind, the trees,
Painting pictures by the river, always there to please.
You are like my river, in my heart you stay.....
Do you ever wonder,,, "Why Rivers Run One Way?

GOD knows,,,, Tom Caswell tommy_caswell2000@yahoo.com email me I will send you poem and pic :)

2007-10-21 04:45:24 · 5 answers · asked by tommy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How would that affect her?

Thanks in advance to answerers.

2007-10-21 04:44:22 · 10 answers · asked by Amelia T 2 in Family

if your so called bff treated you like a dog she gets in trouble and blames it on you and you even agree it was you and you get a pat on the head from her and you were always talked about by her and called me skiny names (she is FAT) and you would always forgive her and she would do the same hing like the snob she is and copied your outfits and still talked about it (i am a name brand person) what would you do i am not talking to her she called it i dont even know why should i keep it that way or forgive her for the 25th time (literally)

2007-10-21 04:44:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is kind of delicate, so don't be assholes,
Ok, so, i'm 18 years old, and I've got this sister that's 13 years old.
Once, by mistake, I found in my browser history links to porn, and the time was around when my little sister was at home, ok, i said to myself, she might have accesed a wrong link, big deal, it happenes sometimes.
A couple of days later, i found porn history again, and, I was like, ****, she's got her privacy & stuff, but it's gotta' stop.
So I just went and told her "Be carefull what sites you're gong into, ok, if I catch you doing this one more time, i'll tell mom"
Today, guess what, I checked the history again, just to be shure, and, surprize, more porn.
Now, i'm shure it's my little sister, but I don't know what to do. I mean, it would be a little embarassing for me to tell mom about this, and I do belive she has the right of discovering things on her own, but she's still little, easy to influence by the stuff she might see.

2007-10-21 04:43:34 · 50 answers · asked by vlad r 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband told me about the affair when he felt how guilty he was anyways they had not slept but were attracted to each other at work

2007-10-21 04:41:16 · 42 answers · asked by loreen1p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-21 04:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by bahjij6 5 in Marriage & Divorce

please answer in the basis of morality.

2007-10-21 04:38:49 · 17 answers · asked by piratecrusader 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I don't know what I should do about my situation.. I'm 27 and I still live at home.. I tried going to college 3 times but I quit and dropped out. So I don't have an education and still work BS jobs. I drive an old truck that is rusty and will wear out in a couple years. Because I don't have much I haven't dated in 5 years, never brought a guy home.. etc. I don't hang out with friends because they feel awkward around me and i feel awkward around them. People my age are married, engaged, having kids, careers. I feel like I'm 15. I can't move out and pay $700/month rent and also go get an education of some sort and save for an expensive newer truck!!! Its insane the way the system is its sick. Any help would be great thanks!

2007-10-21 04:35:52 · 3 answers · asked by chilipepper 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i repay the woman who carried me for 9 monthes?
How can i repay the woman who held me close and protected me when i wake her up atnight crying loudly?
how can i repay the woman who feed me till i became a man?
How can i repay the woman showed me what is right/wrong?
how can i repay the woman who always got me out of trouble somehow?
how can i repay the woman who've been patient all these 20 years with me?

2007-10-21 04:33:14 · 8 answers · asked by |-SalMaN-| 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well... I've been dating a guy for 2 months. And everything is great. And then, one day I sent him a text message saying: "I'm thinking of you!"... The response was: "I miss you too!"After this day, I always say "I miss you" first and he says "I miss you too". He said it first a couple times.... And I really want to know if it is true or not?! If he really misses me or is just saying because I say it first?!!

2007-10-21 04:30:23 · 6 answers · asked by Ana Paula 3 in Singles & Dating

For the past 6 months (ever since I got engaged) I have been contemplating the great mystery of a color scheme for my wedding! I finally decided that I can't limit myself to one color, so I either need to go with a few different colors or a few different shades. I was thinking of either sunset colors (since my favorite color is hot pink) and blending it with oranges and yellows in order to play down the pink, or ocean colors and using shades of blues and greens. As you can guess, my wedding is in late August. It should also be noted that my wedding dress is a very simple and ivory Carolina Herrera, so I want a color that will also compliment my dress (if that's possible). The number one thing I want is for my wedding to be elegant and classic. Which color scheme, if any, seems to be the more elegant and classic choice?

2007-10-21 04:29:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

.. as soon as the hubby is under, your average wife is out looking for a new mate .. particular attention paid to annual remuneration of course, nothing less than what she's accustomed to is remotely considered.
Men are the faithful partners however .. they'll go to their graves with the memory of their wives still held dear.
In this respect men are like dogs, faithful and true. Women are more like cats, out for the next meal, easy come easy go.

2007-10-21 04:29:06 · 30 answers · asked by the norm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who constantly tells me that things aren't the way they used to be in this generation, and that certain things are now more acceptable.

With that said, I've had a boyfriend for a month now, knew him for about a month before that. He treats me like royalty and we spend so much time together. He always talks about the future with us. He's very mature and intelligent.
I am a senior in college, 21 years old. We just started having sex (me for the first time). Was too soon?

I mean, I feel okay with it... but by principle, is it too soon?

2007-10-21 04:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with a guy for a few years,he really hurt me and it ended badly,it has been two years since and I have met many men and shared beds with them and cuddled,nothing more,never gained feelings for any of them.Just recently I met this guy and we have been talking since,we have gone out 3 times now and twice slept in the same bed,just cuddling.I am too scared to do more,for its been so long and I was so hurt before,so i am super cautious.But Im starting to really like this guy,how can I be sure the way I feel is for real?

2007-10-21 04:27:00 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

You know when you're so in love with someone they're always on your mind. When you wake up from when you go to bed.. they are all you can think about. Well, it's even worse when you have no idea if this person feels anything relatively close to what you feel. The guy that I'm insanely falling for is again, 7 years older than me, and we haven't even taken any steps into getting into a relationship. It's just a friend thing, and even worse, he has a girlfriend. I honestly don't know what to do... I can't stop thinking about him, and wondering if the flirtation between us will ever go into anything farther? How can I tell anything without telling him my true feelings?

2007-10-21 04:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know which counties does not require both parties to be present to submit a marriage license application?

2007-10-21 04:22:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

all reply's will be read (o_o)

Thanks friends

2007-10-21 04:22:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We just argue all the time.

2007-10-21 04:22:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 04:21:11 · 14 answers · asked by wackywaitress2003 3 in Weddings