Ok, what to do if i catch my little sister watching porn? Girls, help me out here.?

Question

This is kind of delicate, so don't be assholes,
Ok, so, i'm 18 years old, and I've got this sister that's 13 years old.
Once, by mistake, I found in my browser history links to porn, and the time was around when my little sister was at home, ok, i said to myself, she might have accesed a wrong link, big deal, it happenes sometimes.
A couple of days later, i found porn history again, and, I was like, ****, she's got her privacy & stuff, but it's gotta' stop.
So I just went and told her "Be carefull what sites you're gong into, ok, if I catch you doing this one more time, i'll tell mom"
Today, guess what, I checked the history again, just to be shure, and, surprize, more porn.
Now, i'm shure it's my little sister, but I don't know what to do. I mean, it would be a little embarassing for me to tell mom about this, and I do belive she has the right of discovering things on her own, but she's still little, easy to influence by the stuff she might see.

if I go In with force, she'll just say "what do you know? I know better". I want her to really realize that isn't healthy for her.
Now, I watched porn too when I was like 15, but iI was a guy for crying out loud (and please don't pour me some feminists lines here, i do know that girls are 40% of the porn market in the world, but guys are naturally more inclined to this... i don't want to debate this here, but it's a fact of life)
And, for those of you that are asking "What harm can a little porn do?" I can tell you that I just returnerd from a trip with this girl that ****** one of my friends, ONS style, and she was feeling like crap. I just talked to her, and she had HUGE issues. I don't want that girl to be my sister, OK?
so, reasons against it:
1) it disinfroms her
2) she might get stupid, dumb behaviour out of it
3) Fo crying out loud, need I say this? She's my sister!

Answer 1

You are a great brother. I agree with you and like your thoughts on this.

Honestly, if you could talk her about it wide open and just listen, you may feel better. My son got into porn at age ten with an older boy and rented the most nasty, gross, non-normal stuff you can imagine off the TV. I was horrified. He thought he was a dead-man when I took the problem to him, but mostly I was worried about it warping his reality and upset that he learned about sex from stuff like that. So...we talked. He was curious, he was grossed out, he was embarrassed as hell. He had no interest in repeating the experience. Then he got a little older, and it started popping up on the computer like with your sister. So...I again went to him. I said it was normal to be curious, but what did HE think about all that he had seen? I didn't want specifics, but did want to know where his head was at with it. He is okay. Your sister will be too. I imagine she is curious about men and women and the bedroom and that is normal. I wouldn't make a big deal about it, but I would get her thoughts on it and see where she is at. It is important she knows porn is porn like movies and not how real life is. If the computer is where mom may see it, I would suggest to her to either delete her history or not watch it where she is likely to get embarrassed or in trouble.
You are right--it is normal and natural for her to be curious. It is probably nothing more than that. Just let her know it makes you uncomfortable to have to picture your little sister viewing porn on your computer. Perhaps she could cool it.

Now...she is likely to be defensive, embarrassed, etc. Don't fall for responding to it. Just be real cool, laid back and matter-of-fact. If you can't do it, don't have the discussion.

I go into porn when I was like 8 and found my best friend's dad's magazines. We would hide under the blankets and look at them with flashlights and giggle. We were grossed out and soon moved on to other things. I just don't think this is a big crisis.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Little Sisters Porn

Answer 4

Little Sisters Friend Porn

Answer 5

First of all you need to be sure it is your sister and not some automated pop-up thing.
If it is your sister...first of all relax. I'm sure she's just at an age where she's wondering what happens with stuff like that. Don't tell your mom, that'd be way too embarassing for your sister and your mom I'm sure. But your sister is lucky to have a brother like you that cares about her and this would be a golden opportunity to talk to her about the facts of life. You could sit her down and say ''I know you've been watching this stuff...and I used to watch it when I was younger too. But you know what....that is not how it is in real life'' You could talk to her and explain that she is a valuable human being and her body is a temple, and if she ever did think about sleeping with someone she should a)wait and b)make sure that the person she does sleep with is the very best person she's met and worthy of her. You could also explain to her from your point of view how the male mind works...a lot of young girls will sleep with someone to get attention/compliments etc cos they have low self esteem, so let your sister know that what men say and what men think are sometimes two different things. Chill out about it though...girls can be just as inquisitive about these things as boys and she's probably just curious. I'm sure with a little guidance from you she'll be just fine

Answer 6

I have 2 older brothers and I also looked at porn when I was 13 or so (of course it wasn't online) that said, if you are really concerned, talk to her. While there are many sites that give a very distorted view of sex, she's probably just curious and discovering masturbation and her own sexuality. A little guidance couldn't hurt, ask a female cousin or friend to talk with her if you aren't comfortable. Keep in mind if you go to your parents it might damage her trust in you. Try to discuss what she has been viewing. Don't behave as if she's wrong or dirty for being interested in sex. How did you feel when you discovered sex? Treat her with respect, but if you feel she might be in any danger definitely go to your parents no matter what!!

Answer 7

KK calm down im 13 to and me and my friends talk ALOT about pervi stuff . I'm not say she does but there is a chance

i've never watch porn be4
but she probably curious

The best thing to do is sit down and talk to her

but not in a parental way
as a friend
ask her why she keep watch porn and if she plans on doing anything on it

u never kno she could be i love
and she might think it s time but its not

so....
talk 2 her

and being a guy or a girl has nothing to do with watching porn

THERE R SOME freaky girl out there

and im not say your sis is one of them but have trust
and find out stuff

Answer 8

this is a hard situation 4 sure,
at her age she is just beginning to get curious about sex and what it involves but a porn website is not the place to be learning about this sorta stuff. It could seriously distort her view of sex.
what i think would be best for her is for some1 2 talk to her bout sex, obviously not you cos no girl wants to talk 2 their older bro about sex or ask any questions about the things she is feeling, is there 1 of ur friends or an older female that she knows, like or respects who u can confide in and she can just casually mention it to her. That way it aint obvious but all her doubts and confusions could be helped without her being vunerable to all the perverted porn out there on the web.
Also, maybe u should mention to ur parents that ur concerned that there is a lot of innappriate stuff on the net and ur worried that ur sis may accidently come across stuff that she isnt yet old enough to deal with. That way they could put a protection thing on the net that will limit what sights she can access, ie. it will stop porn sites being opened.

Answer 9

16/female.
You need to talk her out of it.
Have a one on one conversation, and tell her it is a un healthy habit. Umm, I know it would be ackward to talk to her about it, but you need to.
If she continues even after the convo. tell your mom.
found from other peoples yahoo answers:
Destroy what you have and cut off access to it. Then, when you want it she won't be able to get to it. That can be a serious addiction. Cut it off while you know it's a problem.
she should have to have an alternative. she should try some sports like basketball or tennis. think of an outdoor activities that will keep her busy & not think of watching p*ography.There are so many, oh, so many, very clean and attractive, fascinating hobbies, games, artistic pursuits, topics for pursuit, that porn would soon vanish from herr list of favourites, once she makes up her mind to chase the other clean and attractive and character building, mind developing, brainy pursuits!she should try them out with purpose, vigorously: p*rn will on its own vacate her mind very soon, and, with her new pursuits taking up your time and energy, she will soon have no time at all for p*rn.

Answer 10

Not sure the watching porn is a good thing, its a false perception of sex, password your laptop. I personally was experimenting in a similar manner when I was about 8 or 9, I was an early bloomer and am still highly sexed. Hormones are funny things and we are all different. Wouldn't worry xx