I was with a guy for a few years,he really hurt me and it ended badly,it has been two years since and I have met many men and shared beds with them and cuddled,nothing more,never gained feelings for any of them.Just recently I met this guy and we have been talking since,we have gone out 3 times now and twice slept in the same bed,just cuddling.I am too scared to do more,for its been so long and I was so hurt before,so i am super cautious.But Im starting to really like this guy,how can I be sure the way I feel is for real?
2007-10-21 04:27:00 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just give it time you will know it when it come.Isnt it sensible that you have to know a guy better before you know whether your feelings are real or just imagined(wishfully).Yes so i suppose all the answers we give you here will be pointless only time will tell:)
2007-10-21 04:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've dated this boy 3 times, and twice ended up in bed with him? This isn't real, this is about sex. A real man would have actually taken you out on dates and treated you with respect. If you were a real woman, you would use your self-respect to make sure this boy treats you right.
2007-10-21 11:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that u have just said uve shared you have met many men and havent gained eeling for them but you do for this one shows that ur feeling are real!! go for it and good luck x
2007-10-21 11:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by bumyop2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear that you were so hurt hun.
i thikn that if you reallreally like this new guy that you may want to give it a try. dont do anythign stupid liek have sex with him but atleast experiment to see if you are ready and explain to him that ou were hurt before and taht is why you are scred to commit to him.
2007-10-21 11:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋