Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

2007-10-21 02:39:31 · 13 answers · asked by Jyde 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a guy who took rights on as a father that is called dad and step daughter have sexual intercourse and the guy was married had 2 grand daughters they said grandpa and the grandmother is called grandma is that normal for the 2 kids not to know and is that they can have a father like that and he was married to her mom

2007-10-21 02:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by nyromen 1 in Family

For several months now, I've been telling him how I feel (ignored, used, unwanted). He says he'll change then he doesn't. I already left him once, maybe I should leave for good. I feel like everyone's feelings matter but my own, he pays more attention to his family and friends. He leaves me at home with the baby all day while he works, or hangs out with his friends. He even leaves in the middle of the night without telling me where he's going( he did this last night after he promised he wouldn't). I don't know, I'm just do sick of this.

2007-10-21 02:37:56 · 30 answers · asked by PrettyLady26 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when your close friend after having an arguement thats been going on for a week or so decides to tell you she doesn't want to be friends and is not inviting you to your birthday party because your not her friend?

2007-10-21 02:37:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-21 02:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been caught doing drugs 3 times now

if i keep going how long till u think it will take until my parents don't care about my drug use?

if u think they'll quit caring

i love my parents and help them all the time they come waaayyy before drugs, so don't think i'm just a punk

if i could smoke a 7 gram goddy or help my mom out i would help my mom

2007-10-21 02:30:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfirend is the SORT OF the best boyfriend...our school are 45mins away and i just sense he's cheating....i mean we talk all we can and when i see him we have great sex...but i just dont trust people....we have been together for three months and when he met me he said im the first girl that could honestly take him saying he wouldnt cheat me, and run with it. I looked in his history on his computer and he WAS LOOKING AT SOMEONES PHOTOS ON FACEBOOK THREE TIMES DURING THE WEEK. when i ask him he says hes tired of me accusing him and the next time I ask him hes leaving. Also his phone is OFF LIMITS PERIOD....WHATS GOING ON?

2007-10-21 02:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by Sherry Love 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, a couple days ago i went somewhere with a friend that NO ONE would expect me to hang out with. i saw people i knew and they were like completely shocked. i know they are going to tell people and this is going to turn into a big deal when its not. what should i do?

2007-10-21 02:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by Megan Cardwell 2 in Friends

I've been dating this boy for a little while. Don't get me wrong, I'm head over heels for him. But lately I've been feeling like ...maybe I'm not good enough for him? He's the kind of person who could probaly drop 500 euros on the ground, and it wouldn't even matter to him, at all. Probaly never has to work for the rest of his life, and his garage is filled with expensive cars and closet, and probaly would never go close to Walmart with a 10 foot pole.

Me, on the other hand, I live in a semi-run down house, with a beautiful family don't get me wrong, but money is scarce. I enjoy the simple things in life, like Nature, picnics and picking flowers by highways. He has a beautiful humorous personality, though, sometimes I...feel that maybe he could do a lot better then me, I think, what is he doing with a person like me?

Is this wrong to think that? I feel really bad. :(

<3 thank you.

2007-10-21 02:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm cursed because I can have any female I want and there is no challenge for me getting girls.

2007-10-21 02:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I got all you're awesome answers. I'm not a selfish person at all....quite the opposite, but his issue really sets me off. He can talk with the inlaws, I don't care, but when I hear....."I have to make a decision if I'm going to the in-laws Xmas party...and I'm between a rock & a hardplace, because someone will be upset no matter what I decide" that goes above & beyone the tolerance level. The party is Dec 23....we bowl and that's one of our bowling nites......bowling is not a big deal and I could care less about bowling. My issue is...you tell me you want to spend the rest of your life with me....and you love me, so why would you EVER decide to hurt me or make me mad over your former inlaws?....I've been more than patient with this situation. We went to dinner with them, at a family graduation with them...(where the former mother in law talked ill about my bf's mother..not cool), so I've been more than willing to be accepting...
So thank you all for the responses.

2007-10-21 02:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by janice5_98 1 in Family

2007-10-21 02:17:19 · 21 answers · asked by imhiashell 1 in Singles & Dating

--PROS--
I have a GREAT place to stay, where I know everyone and they will give me all the living necessities and more
my dad forces me to wrestle when I suck and just get beat up

--Cons--
my mom is awesome, and I love her so so much
I am only 15, yes I know I sound stupid/immature but believe me I am not
I will have no money

this is completely based on opinion
answer with what you think I should do

also include if you think I should leave at 16 when I have a job and some money to start on instead

2007-10-21 02:14:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering how old is too old for a ring barrier and flower girl. I would like to have my bestfriends kids has the flowergirl and ring barrier. She will be 12 he will be 10 when I get married. Is this too old?

2007-10-21 02:12:43 · 21 answers · asked by pandazoogurl 3 in Weddings

What is the perfect girl for you?
What qualities does she have?
What does she look like?
What are her hobbies?

2007-10-21 02:12:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a terrible problem, i don't know how to make friends, i am always feeling like; was what i said stupid, does my breath stink, do i have body o dour...and i see all this people all the time and i don't know how to make friends with them now, since i wasn't so friendly the first time.
And the other issue is that i snob boys that smile at me, is this right because i do have a boyfriend. for example, i have a new neighbor, one day i saw him and he was smiling at me but i just looked away. i started behaving like this because one of my other neighbors was deceiving me asking me to be his girlfriend and asking my friend to be his girlfriend also and my new neighbor is friends with my old neighbor. please i need your advice.
but generally is it ok for a girl to have so many boy friends(boys that are friends) cause i just feel like if someone smile at you, that means the person is interested in you. and it nice to answer their call.

2007-10-21 02:10:05 · 3 answers · asked by tolu_thegame10 2 in Singles & Dating

Is a week too long to text someone after you met them? He has my numba too n cud just as easily text me. We had the potential for a one night stand but we didn't reli do ne thing. He text me the next day to check I got home ok, n I text back just being like yeh (but i a few more words lol), I'm not necessarily looking for a date, just sex will be fine, but shud I just leave it now? He was really good looking lol, I don't want to let it go! Also if I do text him, what do I even say? As you can tell I'm not used to this, I usually don't get to swapping numbers :s not in a slutty way, it just feels less complicated!

2007-10-21 02:08:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want him to tell me he loves me every day and that i am beautiful every day. And return the pleasure that i gave him. He has told me he loves me and that i am beautiful but just not every day. I am being stupid?

2007-10-21 02:08:22 · 29 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

On line, and develped feelings for them? Have you ever met the person? What became of your frienship/relationship?

2007-10-21 02:07:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the background: we dated for two years (i'm 20, he's 22), and now have a 6week old baby together but I am now living with my parents and he is really not involved (showed up after she was born and at 5 weeks for a couple hours). I moved home because he wouldn't take financial responsibility and get a good enough job so he could afford all his personal expenses as well as contribute to our living expenses. Most months I paid a lot of his bills (inc. car payment). With a baby on the way I couldn't afford to pay for her as well as him - i'm a full-time student with virtually no income of my own but I always managed to pay for food, rent, utilities each month.

Anyways, he said he loves me and up until this point I did want to work things out (afterall the main problem was him not acting like an adult) given he'd get a good job. He came down at 5weeks and tried to get me to have sex with him and I said no b/c we're not dating and I'm not a slut - then he left without...

2007-10-21 02:06:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and I go to an all-girls school, so finding a boyfriend isn't easy! I've be going out with this boy (from a boys school) for 2 years but its always been a bit awkard between us. At the disco the other night, he was slow dancing with another girl, my friends showed me and then started yelling at him but he just shrugged. I asked him why but he said he didn't think I'd mind if he had friends who are girls and they were just talking. But, he hadn't asked me to dance as he said it was the wrong music. I saw them talking later on and I found out shes been dancing with loads of boys. All the boys think I'm just to over possessive, and apparantly, he was crying in the toilets. He said he was sorry he didn't think about how I'd feel but not for dancing with her. Loads of my friends have offered to slap him-should I dump him?

2007-10-21 02:02:10 · 3 answers · asked by Meryl 2 in Singles & Dating

I had many friends once,in school.
One day,I don't know... they started ignoring me in an annoying way. I wanted to talk to them... but they just walked away. I still had many friends... including my best friend. But those friends that ignored me were once my best friends too! I can't "live" without them.
I wonder what had happened?!!
Well,since I don't know what happened,I will NOT apologize. Is there any other way to get together again? It's a very hard decision to make.
PLEASE HELP(A. S. A. P.)

2007-10-21 02:01:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay so yesterday me n my frined made a deal that if she gets me a boyfrined than she have to go out with any guy i choose 4 her. so she called her frined javon and asked him if he wants 2 go out with me. he said yes. so then i told him that i really dont want 2 go out with u any more cuz it was just a deal. and he said i just said yes 2 make you happy. but a long time a go he said he liked me 4 real so does he still like me or just wants 2 b friends.

2007-10-21 01:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by chocalate_swirl95 1 in Singles & Dating

she's amazing in everyway she'snever ever cheated she's smart she's beautifal she's a brunette (my fave :P) she's got a gogetter attitude she's always cheering me up when i get bullied (she's popular and i'm low on the ol' totem pole) recently during recess i ripped my pants while running and in 5 minutes every grade in middle school knew i was running around the entire recess trying to set things straight but in the end it wasn't me who did it it was her (the girl i like) and surprisingly she wasn't upset about how angry i was with everybody else and she calmed me down without trying after that recess we had music examinations which we both passed without trying and then she brought me into the practice room to "practice" but we never ended up practicing much, we stayed in there for an hour at the least and later on she said "I had a really good time" today then wnkd at me but she has a bf and she would never cheat someone and she hasn't spoken to her bf for 10 days is this alostcause

2007-10-21 01:52:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have ask him many times to move out but he is still here and making my life a missiary

2007-10-21 01:50:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay last time I went to clubs. I got so shy I ran out of the club 10minutes after I got in there.
But Last night. I went to clubs and stayed like 2hours.
Im still trying to overcome my shyness. If anyone can help me how to do that. then please HELP.
And I was keep waiting for girls to approach me but is that wrong? or should I approach them? But How??

2007-10-21 01:47:32 · 4 answers · asked by Hakoo Ma Shantai 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 01:45:45 · 7 answers · asked by Reji Joseph 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys. you might think of this question as a mushy one, anyway i just want to know your thought regarding this- whats the difference between these lines:
- "i love you because i need you"
and
-" i need you because i love you"

pretty mushy right? swear im having a hard time figuring out the difference, believe me..

2007-10-21 01:44:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So in this dream me my sister and my boyfriend are standing at the door and my mom is outside. My mom says your dad has time to do all kinds of stuff now: "put in new floors,put in carpet,die... when my mom says die me and my sister fall on the ground crying. at this point my boyfriend goes in the house. next thing i know im in the dining room on the floor crying and my boyfriend is walking around nervously. he comes up to me and tells me he only has 2 weeks left to live. i cant cry anymore and im trying so hard to. i tell him we never had a chance to get married. then he told me we would get married before he died.

2007-10-21 01:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I care 4 myself. I don't mean that I don't care about others, no. I help others, try to give better things than 4 myself, but I really do love myself so much, that if I had millions, I wouldn't give any money to ppl I do not know. Ppl buy me a lot of expensive things, but I don't give the same in return... Like my boyfriends. They buy me presents and I rarely give them a kiss. Am I a REALLY bad person? :'(

2007-10-21 01:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by ~SuPrEmE_ShInNyA~ 4 in Friends