i have a terrible problem, i don't know how to make friends, i am always feeling like; was what i said stupid, does my breath stink, do i have body o dour...and i see all this people all the time and i don't know how to make friends with them now, since i wasn't so friendly the first time.
And the other issue is that i snob boys that smile at me, is this right because i do have a boyfriend. for example, i have a new neighbor, one day i saw him and he was smiling at me but i just looked away. i started behaving like this because one of my other neighbors was deceiving me asking me to be his girlfriend and asking my friend to be his girlfriend also and my new neighbor is friends with my old neighbor. please i need your advice.
but generally is it ok for a girl to have so many boy friends(boys that are friends) cause i just feel like if someone smile at you, that means the person is interested in you. and it nice to answer their call.
2007-10-21 02:10:05 · 3 answers · asked by tolu_thegame10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many people tend to worry about those things. The only way to make sure that you have no odor is to either chew gum or carry breath mints, if you think perhaps you have body odor wear deodorant, bathe regularly, and use perfume. Is what you said stupid? No. Some people are jerks and will think so. Sometimes you might say the wrong thing at the wrong time but that is not stupid. You might even say something obvious but that is not stupid either just obvious. As far as not smiling at every guy that smiles at you, if they think you are snobbish then they were not interested in you anyway because they did not try to find out more. It is always good to be wary of people that want to have you as a girlfriend because you never know if someone is like your neighbor.
2007-10-21 02:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question in the first few lines. You are self-absorbed and self-conscious. While you are so busy thinking about yourself and the impression you may be making you aren't thinking about others so aren't giving out any 'friendship' vibes. Hence, difficulty making friends. Why do you snub boys who smile at you? Smile back. Having a boyfriend doesn't mean you can only be exclusively for him. You are allowed other friends, boys or girls. It doesn't have to be all kissy kissy stuff. Plain friendship is nice but you won't find that out until you stop not-smiling at people. Forget who the new neighbour does or doesn't know. If he's nice and you don't mind giving him a smile, go ahead.
2007-10-21 02:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes itz perfectly fine to have many boy friends then girls....nothing is wrong with you....you just have to do is that you'll hv to start getting mixed and involved in otherz matterz and problems when you will do that you will autometically get mixed with people and i m sure that on day will come when you will forget the names and will get confused in calling your friendz name...coz you will have lots of friendz...sorry but i don't hv that gud english...hope this words will bring change in you life...just aply it for once...i promise that you will have many friendz....
GOOD LUCK!!!
with lots of wishes :-D
2007-10-21 02:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋