So in this dream me my sister and my boyfriend are standing at the door and my mom is outside. My mom says your dad has time to do all kinds of stuff now: "put in new floors,put in carpet,die... when my mom says die me and my sister fall on the ground crying. at this point my boyfriend goes in the house. next thing i know im in the dining room on the floor crying and my boyfriend is walking around nervously. he comes up to me and tells me he only has 2 weeks left to live. i cant cry anymore and im trying so hard to. i tell him we never had a chance to get married. then he told me we would get married before he died.
2007-10-21 01:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's just a routine nightmare, probably fueled by something you're afraid of subconsciously that surfaced while you slept. It'll be disturbing for a day or so, but the feeling will pass, and everything will be just fine. (Try not to eat heavily before you lie down to sleep...that seems to make nightmares more prevalent.)
2007-10-21 01:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are going through is very normal. This is the grieving process, and it would be unusual for you not to be affected, after all you did spend alot of time with this guy. He must have had some very special qualities for you to do this, and these are the things you are remembering. Just let the process take it's course and go thru it. You will move on when you are ready. Remember too, that there are reasons that you were not with him, much of this has been forgotten as you are remembering the good parts about him. Try to not be hard on yourself about it, you were not supposed to be together or else you would have been. When hitting starts, it only escalates, so be thankful that you split instead of wishing that you had'nt. Good for you for not putting up with this-- You should be proud of yourself for this decision. Something that will help you is to get busy with something wether it's a hobby or work, or something that you're intrested in. Find something to get your mind focused on it, this will be the healthy way to deal with it, as opposed to obsessing on this and thinking and talking about nothing else. It is'nt healthy to sit around and dwell, get up, get going, and get involved with something, force yourself--you'll feel alot better when this is'nt in your head all the time.
2016-05-23 23:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u r in sleep the fears u had in ur mind are caught by ur unconscious mind and u get such crazy dreams.... never mind those...so u love ur dad and ur bf a lot and dont want to loose them at any cost...so stop thinking that u r going to loose them and enjoy the present moment... :)
2007-10-21 01:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your subconscience or something is trying to tell you that you should get married before you and your family get too old. or it could be just a weird dream
2007-10-21 01:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a matter of does your dad like your bf cause that could be your selfconcious mind tellin you to make sure that they both like each other before things get out of hand or it could just be paranoia telling you to not let anything go unsaid make sure you tell your bf and your dad wat you feel dont bottle everything up it wont help good luck :) xx
2007-10-25 01:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Halloween Child !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv had horrid dreams to,make sure you always let people know how you feel just incase to late
2007-10-21 02:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋