I have ask him many times to move out but he is still here and making my life a missiary
2007-10-21 01:50:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We divorced ten years ago and he was living with some one else who owned a Public House but sold up and he had no where to live and me like fool let come stay with me untill he found some wher to live but he has no intentions of going "Help what can I do ?
2007-10-21 01:53:52 · update #1
You can legally evict him. If he is paying rent or not. If he is paying rent then you may want to go to court and have him legally evicted. If he is not paying rent you can do the same or you can just move his stuff out and change the locks. If he bothers you then you can call the police and then go to court for a restraining order and he will have to pay.
2007-10-21 01:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he not only moved back into your house but, back into the old marriage to. He is taking advantage of your good heart and hospitality and should respect you to leave and go peacefully.Let him know that you do not want any problems here and set a time and date to take his things and go. If he is not out of there when his time is up tell him you will call the police to escort him to the front door. I would let him know that you hope that it will not come to that but, it will if it has to. I would start bringing boxes home in the mean time so that he can start packing. Also hand him the news paper every week to start finding himself an apartment to rent.
2007-10-21 02:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi i feel for you because my mum was in the same situation and its stressfull.The first thing you do is pack every last thing of his up even the things you may be borrowing(youll have to do without for a while)Put them next to the front door give him two days and if he has not gone put them out for the rubbish.Its not your belongings so its rubbish to you.OUT means OUT.Dont argue with him take pitty on him or feel guilty.Your doing him a favour he has to move on with his life and so do you hes your ex for a reason and it sounds like hes stuck in a rut.
Get a grip of your life.If he refuses to budge call the police have him removed.
Dont say to him 'if you dont leave im calling the police'
Just go out or go to another room without him there and just do it.
It realy is that simple !!!i wish you luck .
2007-10-21 07:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, you are being walked all over like a rug! This man is taking advantage of your home and you are the only one who can get him out! I think you must like him their or else you would have gotton him out a long time ago. Its kinda like a woman who is being abused, she wants to leave, but she cant, because she has no inner strength, so my advise to you is to, dig way down deep and get some control and strength over this man and boot him out! You claim that you asked him to leave, no,no, you need to go one step further, you must tell him to leave, not ask! And if he doesnt, then take it to the next level, contact the police! Yep thats right, you may have to fight dirty, but let me tell ya, it will be worth it! Theirs nothing worse then a loser taking a free ride in your home, get rid of him! Today!
2007-10-21 03:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you! Give him a 30 day notice to find a place to live. If he's not gone, put all his belongings outside and change the locks. Get the law involved if necessary. He's a leech.
2007-10-21 03:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a backbone and tell him he's got "x" amount of time and he needs to be out. Get the law involved if you need to...2 yrs isn't temporary but he's there because you allow it. Don't fuss about something that's been your choice...either put him out or suck it up and accept that he'll continue living there until you make him leave.
People cannot take advantage of you unless you allow it.
2007-10-21 02:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple, give him a month's notice. At the end of a month, whether he has moved out or not, change the locks. Job done.
2007-10-21 04:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask him to get out if he is a bad man. But if he is a nice person and he has no somewhere to live, then you can allow him to live there with you for a short time, but can't live for a long time, if not, maybe will happen some things what you don't want.
2007-10-21 02:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Angel H 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1st, you ought not have let in an 'ex' even if only temporarily back into your home (life) except perhaps you had inner 'hopes' of reconciliation which on the other hand you actions might en-ginger in your ex!
All the same, pls get him out legally! and move on with your life!
2007-10-21 02:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Teedaddy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to evict him - legally, through the Court system.
DO NOT just change the locks! That is illegal to do to a "tenant" and you can be arrested and charged - and brought up on civil penalties for it!
2007-10-21 02:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋